35. The Ordinary Habits That Shape Our Family

Family life isn't built on grand gestures - it's shaped by the small, ordinary moments we repeat every day.  In this episode, we are joined by Elizabeth Leyden, mentor at Tangara School for Girls, wife, mum of two and former lawyer, to explore how simple family habits and routines become the foundation for lasting relationships, joyful homes and a living faith.  Together they discuss why family dinners matter, how couples can create their own family culture, the importance of investing in marriage, and practical ways to make faith a natural part of everyday life. Elizabeth also shares how understanding each child's temperament, spending intentional one-on-one time, and embracing ordinary moments can have an extraordinary impact on family life.  Whether you're raising toddlers, navigating busy family schedules, or simply looking for ways to be more intentional at home, this conversation offers practical encouragement to start small, stay consistent, and focus on what truly matters.  Discussion Points: Creating your family's unique style: building traditions and values together as a couple instead of simply copying your own upbringing.  Making faith part of everyday life: practical ways to integrate prayer, church visits and conversations about God into daily family routines.  Investing in marriage first: why a strong, united marriage provides the foundation for raising children with confidence and consistency.  Helping children grow through responsibility and service: encouraging children to contribute at home, notice others' needs and develop a generous outlook.  The importance of family rest and togetherness, rediscovering joy through shared meals, outdoor adventures, games and quality time without distractions.  Starting small and staying consistent: simple, achievable habits that help families build lasting routines without striving for perfection.  Join the Conversation  What routines or traditions have helped your family grow closer?  We'd love to hear from you. Share your thoughts, favorite family traditions, or practical habits that have made a difference in your home.  Connect with us on social media or send us your questions and suggestions for future episodes. Your stories may inspire other families on their own journey of growing hearts.  If you enjoyed this episode, please follow Growing Hearts, leave a review, and share it with someone who might find encouragement in today's conversation.  References:  Online Postgraduate Studies in Marriage, Education and Family  Parenting For Character, by Andrew Mullins    You can:   Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast   Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website   Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday   Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes