#36 - On Marriage and Celibacy (Part I)

This is part I of a 2-episode series on marriage and celibacy, answering frequently-asked questions on the topics, with a focus on SSA-related matters.In this episode, we address general questions and misconceptions about marriage. What are the legal rulings on marriage, and when would it actually be discouraged or haram? What if I am pressured by my family and/or community to get married, how do I deal with that? Does marriage "heal" one's SSA? How do I know I’m ready to be sexual and intimate with my spouse, if I’ve never had experience in that domain before? What is some general advice to establish compatibility with my future spouse? These and similar questions are explored in this episode.Books on marriage and relationships from an Islamic perspective:- The Muslim Marriage Guide- Blissful Marriage: A Practical Islamic Guide- Before You Tie the Knot: A Guide for Couples- Before the Wedding: Questions for Muslims to Ask before Getting Married- Handbook of a Healthy Muslim Marriage: Unlocking the Secrets to Ultimate BlissBooks on marriage and relationships (general):- Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus- Mating in Captivity- The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate- How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk- ScreamFree Marriage: Calming Down, Growing Up, and Getting Closer- The Art of Seduction- No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life- The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You- The Seven Principles for Making Marriage WorkBooks on marital relations and intimacy:- The Guide to Getting It On- Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It- Islamic Guide to Sexual Relations- Like a Garment: Intimacy in IslamSend as an anonymous one-way text message