#36 - Outgrowing Your Life Without Hating Where You Are episode artwork

EPISODE · Aug 5, 2025 · 22 MIN

#36 - Outgrowing Your Life Without Hating Where You Are

from The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips · host Chandler Sommerfeldt | Strength and Conditioning Coach, Postpartum and Precision Nutrition Certified and Active Life Professional Candidate

In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about the quiet tension many women carry — loving their life and still wanting more. So many moms feel pressure to constantly “fix” themselves or rush toward the next version of who they should be. Others feel guilty for wanting growth at all, especially when their life looks good on paper. This episode explores how to hold space for gratitude and desire, joy and discomfort, presence and vision — all at the same time. We talk about: why wanting more doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful how perfectionism steals joy from the present the difference between growth and self-rejection why progress doesn’t need to be rushed how to honor your current season without abandoning your future If you’ve ever felt frustrated by your pace of change, conflicted about wanting something different, or unsure how to evolve without burning down your life, this conversation offers relief and perspective. You don’t need to hate your life to outgrow it. And you don’t need to rush your evolution to prove you’re moving forward. Growth can be rooted, intentional, and kind. 🎙️ Subscribe to the podcast If this episode helped you, please rate, review, and share it with a mom who’s trying to lift while raising kids. 🔗 Resources & Links 📖 Read the full breakdown of this Podcast episode on my Substack 👉 [Read it Here] 🏔️ Join the Athlete Mom Project Course Training that fits motherhood — without burnout, all-or-nothing, or sacrificing family life. 👉 [ Learn More Here ] 📲 Learn More About Coaching Programs 👉 Inquire About Coaching Programs Here 💪🏻 Connect with me on Instagram 👉 [@withchanyoucan]

<p>In this episode of <em>The Athlete Mom Project Podcast</em>, I’m diving deep into a topic that so many of us wrestle with: the tension between being grateful for what we have and still wanting to grow, improve, or change.</p><p><br></p><p>You’ll hear me talk about the pressure to always “fix” ourselves, why chasing perfection steals the joy from the present, and how to hold space for both joy and struggle—at the same time. If you’ve ever felt guilty for wanting more or frustrated by your pace of progress, this is the episode for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Tune in to learn how to honor the season you’re in <em>without</em> giving up your vision for what&#39;s next..</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p><strong>Athlete Mom Project Resources</strong></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> ⁠⁠<a href="https://www.instagram.com/withchanyoucan/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@withchanyoucan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><strong>Podcast Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/athletemomproject/">⁠⁠⁠⁠@athletemomproject⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p><strong>My FREEBIE to you (click below):</strong></p><p><a href="https://withchanyoucan.com/homepage">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Your guide to better energy, fat loss, strength, and seeing results that lasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p><strong>Learn More About the Hut Trip Here:</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DKxhiKgxKkn/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠San Juan Mountains Hut Trip⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><strong>.</strong></p><p><strong>.</strong></p><p>🗓️ September 23–25</p><p>📍 Silverton, Colorado - San Juan Mountains</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>Over two nights we’ll move our bodies, hike to alpine lakes, eat nourish meals, share stories over campfires and reconnect with our bodies — surrounded by alpine peaks at 10,000 feet, yummy food, and even better conversation.</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>🛏️ Full Retreat: $900→ Includes lodging, 2 days of meals, all resources, coaching app access with workouts and nutrition support (optional), and all workshops!</p><p><br></p><p>***BONUS OFFER: Come with a friend as a (2 for 1). Bring a buddy and you both can come for $900 total*** - DM me @withchanyoucan and say &quot;BUDDY&quot; and I&#39;ll hook you up.</p><p><strong>.</strong></p><p><strong>.</strong></p><p>Please like and subscribe, rate it, and share with your friends if you found this podcast valuable. It helps this content reach more people!</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p><strong>And remember—with Chan, you CAN 💪</strong></p><p>Let&#39;s climb this mountain together!</p>

NOW PLAYING

#36 - Outgrowing Your Life Without Hating Where You Are

0:00 22:23

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips?

This episode is 22 minutes long.

When was this The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips episode published?

This episode was published on August 5, 2025.

What is this episode about?

In this episode of The Athlete Mom Project, we talk about the quiet tension many women carry — loving their life and still wanting more. So many moms feel pressure to constantly “fix” themselves or rush toward the next version of who they should be....

Can I download this The Athlete Mom Project | Pregnancy Workouts, Postpartum Exercises, Meal Plans, Diastasis Recti, Back Pain, and Mindset Tips episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!