361. The Abundance of Dating Pool Options

If the dating pool is feeling smaller and smaller for you, ask yourself: why is that a bad thing? What if it actually means a better chance at the relationship you're looking for?  This requires a reframe of what "abundance" truly means when it comes to dating and relationships.  The fact is, not everyone is a match for you. But you don't actually want MORE options, you want the RIGHT options. That's ultimately what picking a partner is about. And instead of people pleasing and desperately trying to fit someone else's mold, a much more authentic approach will stop you from looking in all the wrong places for all the wrong things.  In this episode, we're talking about:  Scarcity mindset Taking advantage of our unique qualities How to stand out in the dating world Authenticity and self-abandonment How to make dating more enjoyable Why you shouldn't approach every date as a potential long-term relationship   I hope this episode helps you reframe some of the challenges around dating, because where there's lack, there's abundance on the other side. Email or DM me with your take IG: @emilygoughcoach      CONNECT WITH EMILY THE COMMUNICATION CLINIC – Monday, March 20, 2023 (FREE! sign up here) Book A Private Coaching Call With Emily To Work Together. Get Your Free 15-Page Foundational Guide "Where Do We Begin" Here Men's Group Coaching – 8-Week Program (Join the waitlist here) Women's Group Program "Becoming You" (Join the waitlist here) Instagram: @Emilygoughcoach Email: [email protected]                                       Website: Emily Gough Coaching Podcast: Room To Grow Podcast   REFERENCES Episode 339 | How To Become Wildly Magnetic Episode 352 | The Subtle Ways Self-Abandonment Sneaks Up On Us Episode 346 | Emotional Translation: Learning Each Other's Unique Languages Episode 331 | How To Gain Respect   Podcast Producer: Adam Liefl