#366 The Fifth Face of Eros w/ Marc Gafni

Back again with Marc Gafni to delve into the '12 Faces of Eros,' specifically focusing on the concept of the 'unique self.' Dr. Gaffney explains the intricacies of Eros, which is described as radical aliveness, desiring deeper contact and greater wholeness. The episode addresses how the unique self differs from the separate self and true self, emphasizing its role as an intended, recognized, chosen, and unique expression of reality. The conversation is enriched with philosophical and spiritual discussions, aiming to weave together various streams of wisdom.    Marc’s Books: A Return to Eros(paperback) A Return to Eros(audiobook) The Erotic and the Holy Your Unique Self Soul Prints: Your Path to Fulfillment Self In Integral Evolutionary Mysticism  Connect with Marc: Website Instagram X     Hey! I am now officially back on Instagram, come say hi and stay updated on the journey! Here's the link @kylekingsbu   A huge thank you to this episode's sponsors:  - Save 30% off your first subscription order & receive a free six-pack of Ketone-IQ with Ketone.com/KKP - THE BEST Grass-fed Tallow, available at Paleovalley.com - Use code Kyle for 15% off! - Let’s level up your nicotine routine with Lucy.  Go to Lucy.co/KKP and use promo code (KKP) to get 20% off your first order. Lucy offers FREE SHIPPING and has a 30-day refund policy if you change your mind. - Head over to Organifi.com/kkp and grab a Sunrise to Sunset kit to be covered with Red, Green and Gold, with 20% off using code KKP   Breakdown of this episode:  00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:55 Sponsor Shoutouts and Promotions 12:35 Deep Dive into Eros and Reality 20:33 Exploring the Faces of Eros 24:23 Exploring the Erotic Basis of Uniqueness 25:05 Love as a Unique Self Perception 26:55 The Need for Irreducible Unique Value 28:13 Eight Core Eros Needs 35:21 The Bi-Directional Nature of Needs 39:15 The Difference Between Separateness and Uniqueness 40:21 The Experience of Unique Self 43:54 The Erotic Realization of Uniqueness 45:45 Personal Reflections on Uniqueness Thanks for showing up, let me know what resonates, and what doesn't.  We appreciate a review on wherever you are listening!