37: The Year of Disappointing Others

Hello, my friend! As we dive into the new year, I’m reflecting on an unusual but powerful resolution: the importance of being willing to disappoint others to stay true to yourself.In this episode, I share:A heartfelt conversation with my daughter about her fear of disappointing a close friend as she embarks on a semester abroad.Why so many of us, especially women, feel a deep need to avoid disappointing others, and how this stems from societal and cultural conditioning.Personal stories, including how leaving my marriage and religion required me to face others' disappointment so I could thrive authentically.Practical strategies for navigating those difficult conversations where you choose yourself over others’ expectations.We explore why sparing others’ disappointment is not only impossible but often harmful to your own growth. I challenge you to ask yourself:Why is their disappointment a problem?Am I willing to have difficult conversations to avoid difficult relationships?Plus, my daughter’s surprising insights from watching Millionaire Matchmaker (yes, that binge was totally worth it!) and how it inspired her vision of the confident, self-assured woman she wants to be.This episode is a rallying cry for everyone who’s ready to stop bending over backward to keep the peace and instead honor their own needs, dreams, and happiness.Resources Mentioned:Millionaire Matchmaker on Netflix (for inspiration and some laughs!)Call to Action:Let’s start this year strong by choosing authenticity over people-pleasing. If this episode resonated with you, hit that Follow button and share this podcast with a friend who needs to hear it!And if you’d like to get in touch, email me at [email protected]. (Yes, the website is under construction, thanks to my Netflix binge!)Stay true to yourself, and I’ll see you next week! 💖PostDivorceGlowUp.comEmail: [email protected]