37. Why threats don't work

Of course threats work. In the here and now - if we are willing to threaten to take something away that our child really cares about. But do threats as a way to foster cooperation give us what we want for our children and ourselves in the long run? In this episode I propose that we put guilt, shame and our own inner critic to one side - and simply get curious about the long (and short ) term effect of threats in our parenting. This episode might be just what you need to share with your partner or for you to see things in a new light. In the episode I refer to the 2nd episode of this podcast: "Three things that fuel cooperation" - which would follow on nicely from today's episode. You can catch that right here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/2-three-things-that-fuel-cooperation/id1657607176?i=1000590867085WALKING HOME FOR CHRISTMAS: Join me and other families when we embark on a 10mile long walk in support of CAHMS children and adolescents in inpatient treatment over the festive season. You can make a real diffference to these young people during a difficult time of year for them. When: Sunday 8th of December 9am Where: We set off from Windsor Castle gate and finish at Chobham's White Hart pub. Who can come: ANYONE who would like to walk, connect and enjoy this beautifully scenic route. You can donate and register for the walk right here; https://www.justgiving.com/page/louise-brooks-1728987523914?utm_medium=fundraising&utm_content=page%2Flouise-brooks-1728987523914&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=pfp-shareTo get weekly tips and parenting inspiration sent straight to your inbox - head over to www.louise-brooks.com to sign up for my weekly newsletter You can follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parentingsuccesscoaching/And onFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/