The birds are chirping and fucking the trees are treeing and the squirrels are squirreling bath girl Yeah, it's nature day for perverted podcast listeners. I'm in a park. Oh I am in a park and there's a I don't want to be creepy, but there's like a high school girl softball team playing And I'm like I'm just gonna point the other way cuz you know I'm like a fat old guy in a beat-up car with a microphone and headsets. They're gonna initially peg me as a creeper Which I am but I'm not I'm here doing a show doing a show don't ask me what it's about that would be bad That would some of them might be legal no You know that's something that shit can do a chicken make jokes like that But a dude no no no you show me a license young lady You show me a driver's license, and I know how to check the hologram if it's fake Unfortunately I have to get out my fingers and toes to figure out what 18 is as far as years could be yeah Yeah, I start losing it.
I'm like all right you're you're born in I'm like It's not worth it. It's not worth it. I think we should start a show the following show is for mature audiences only listener discretion is advised And because you are responsible for yourself there won't be another fucking warning Hello and welcome to an all-natural birds chirping version of perverted podcast the show where we explore the adventures of the kinky Lifestyle sex and the human mind recording on Zen castler. I am your co-hostess with the most is poth girl, and I am count boogie Poth girl.
I have a special surprise for you. Yeah, I love surprises special surprise. I did something just for you It's true I groomed my cherries for you. Oh Set in storage and groomed just got the mirror It wasn't pretty but I groomed my cherries and now it's ready for you to get on your knees and just take a mouthful of boogie fruit salad I do I de-groced actually though my new trick which I'm gonna be 55 So anytime you have a new trick you get excited because you're you know Butting the system I now to see myself in storage I have like a little hand mirror and I set it up so I can see when I groomed so I don't cut off my dick with a razor But because that would probably be bad I mean just you know storage unit sex change non-consensual, but I just you know I guess if it happens it happens I'll get a bigger strap on that's for sure but but but then I set up the mirror and then I get naked in storage Which I always picture some because some people want to rip you off in storage and sometimes people get in and they open your door Oh, you know thinking no one's in there and I'm like could you imagine the thief?
That's like yeah, I'm gonna steal some shit and opens it and there's an old fat guy hunched over standing over a trash bin box With a razor shaving off clumps of hair off of his dick I'm pretty sure that motherfucker would never steal again I don't know why but the song that song from sound set of lambs has popped in my head that wild host was on Do you think you said you're like dancing around in the store? You know shaving your pubes and the guy pulls up the door he just stands there and like oh no dancing There was no dancing. I'm pretty sure that guy would give his life to Jesus like literally right in that moment because he has seen the face of hell Oh, and is now Straighten arrow Repent I repent but no I am clean and shaven and it does always make me feel good even though nobody is going to see that Because that would be awful. Yes, what's going on with you now that I've horrified all the listeners Well, I have not had any kinky play with on us and have not gone to any events We had a very short time between the last episode that we take but I have to call you out on something call me out Yes, then I have aired I have done something bad.
I've done something worthy of of being chastised or castigated No, you haven't done anything wrong, but you have a secret that you haven't told the perverted podcast listeners a Seek a secret. Oh, oh Remember I have it open on my computer hell. Yeah, of course. I'm gonna bring it up.
So that's funny No, I know yeah, it really is funny, but yeah, so boogie and I were talking I think it was Saturday night And he just casually throws out You know because boogie talked over the years about how he's done You know different music and he was on k-rock and he did a lot of things music it just happens to casually drop Oh, yeah, by the way, I was in a music video with Lloyd Banks the rap artist song called karma and Yeah, I did that was me. Yeah, and he's actually in the video you see baby boogie because I was like oh my god It's baby boogie interviewing him I mean there's no real like you can see him interviewing him during the video But like in the beginning boogie calls the mountains, you know holds up the album and says ladies and gentlemen Lloyd banks And it's just that yeah, there's a baby book and here's the kicker that boogie didn't even know until I told him that I pulled this video up on YouTube There is over 27 million views of this video 27 27 million people that would give their life to Jesus if they knew what I looked like naked now Because I looked better than I was like 40 I was like a really young like Matt was like I from a big or from MTV Matt Pinterest or Mac So I have no idea. No, that was a fun video It was great because Lloyd Banks. There's like a pyramid There's like dr.
Dre Eminem 50 cent and then 50 cent took over like help G unit Which had Lloyd Banks and it went over and a bunch of other rappers and it kind of goes down the thing but it was funny because at the time Lloyd was super big and And I guess in the opening scene I hugged him too long because I had never met him like you're supposed like greed I agreed on and then you know give him a hug And I'm like white guy hug, you know, and I'm like, you know, it's good to see it and we finished that first take and he sits down next to me He goes you ever fucking hug me like that. I'll kick your fucking teeth down your throat Like a like a good New York fucking gangster threat and I just laughed and I'm like well We're off to a great start and so that was good But it ended up being a lot of fun There was it was a fun day shoot and I made I eventually fucking made them all fucking laugh because I was saying all sorts of crazy Fucked up shit about eating Martha Stewart's pussy and all just just fun stuff Because it's me and they said you got to make this guy laugh and he's tough to make laughs So it took a while but he didn't kill me and it was a fun video 27 fucking million. Yeah, I couldn't believe it I'm like, wow, that's a lot of people that have seen my ugly face be an idiot And did you notice when you were going through like here's something I'll tell per podcast, which is very funny You're you're great magical host. I said watch there won't be any comments about me and path girls all know you were great I'm gonna search all the 400 fucking comments later.
Oh, the path girls like well fuck man. Nobody nobody even said anything about you No, I'm not boy banks. No, I think it'd be some like who's the cracker on the couch comment, you know Probably not even that not even that's but I did bring I did bring the magical energy It was that was a place of karma Lloyd banks from like 2008 Face on a rap video, but speaking of rap videos. Yes speaking of rap songs at the end of this show You the perverted podcast listeners are going to be able to see why I Was not embraced by the rap community because I created this week the greatest rap song ever And I'm pretty sure it's gonna give me my vindication and 50 cent will be will be hollering to produce me.
No, they won't We should probably move on yeah Please know that the author every post we talk about has specifically granted us permission to do so so So we reached out to a Poster on life called the kick shrink and she's actually a kink friendly therapist And she has a lot a lot of workshops and she wrote a post called nre which is new relationship energy the missing warning label So nre which is new relationship energy is the state of mind experienced at the beginning of sexual and romantic relationships typically involving heightened emotional and sexual feelings and excitement It contains chemicals and she's been a parenthesis. See we need a label on this tin It can be in contrast to feelings aroused and experience and established or ongoing relationships Now she's written a bunch of stuff about nre that happens in all different relationships, which is great The honeymoon stage is exciting for the first couple weeks of months and it's an unsustainable set of hormones we make up to But how awesome that nre is it can also cause issues and poly to you can have existing partners And they want your love potentially and also want some excitement attention sex and play if you present a perfect person to the other And upload to sex and play with the other new person and fall asleep on the existing person and the balance is wrong and unfair This can impact others and they could all be emotional and physical We can also be absolute idiots with this chemical cocktail It could be yummy to find the way that there's a better way of feeling and existing so that way someone forever can be chasing that rainbow And lose the value in existing it also has a reputation that nre could be seen as the holy grail that always people always chasing it But at what cost it's a quest that takes you away from home and the people you love big decisions have big consequences And we rarely have pre-mortem and think of the consequences when an altered chemical safe I will apologize because she she had a very long very interesting post I'll make sure I put it up on the Fed Life page, so we had to chop it up to for time purposes But it was a really good post. Yes, so uh, so I named this post and this topic nre the sex high that is only visiting Because okay because it's fucking true and I know that this post By our poster focus mostly on the poly relationships and absolutely if you're in a poly relationship when that new person comes on I would imagine especially in the case where you are not involved like in my case with Bunny and Mew our new partners We all shared so we got to share the new relationship energy with the new partner together So nobody kind of felt left out or pushed to the side But in a case obviously where where you're not dating the other person's metamorph or whatever Then absolutely that's gonna be because when you're all wrapped up in that goopy new shit You want to talk about it? You want to you know you want to be like oh and then we did this and then we did this and then oh my god They did this and we were watching TV and they farted and it was amazing I totally smelled it and it was so cute And it's just like you're doing that with the partner that is not part of that energy So if you don't have that energy with that partner as much anymore because it is a chemical it does fade It was evolutionary for a purpose to keep people connected while breeding and procreating nature nature came in gay men Right, so if one person doesn't have it and the other person has it then of course There's gonna be like jealousy envy and potential resentment if you don't work on that and we've talked about that on the show During clay and like if you're at the dungeon playing with your other partner and then your new partner to make those benchmarks Where you always go to the to the OG partner and do those benchmarks?
I love you. I care about you I'm thinking about you while you're playing with the new person But in the case of these relationships it can get really interesting So I'll let you go first because I'm gonna focus just on a single relationship and not the poly Yeah, I mean because I know we could be either in poly or a monogamy I mean I've had it in both because I've been in both things But it's not only the NRA can be ignoring to your existing partners It could be annoying to the people around you because even your friends and just like oh my god I want to take last night with so and so and like your your friends are rolling their eyes They're like oh there she goes again And it's just it's it's really sweet to like say a couple of sweet things about the new person But you can't verbally vomit all this energy onto people whether it be your partner's your friends because it's just a good exhausting Listen to all of it. Yeah, I'm sure it can be you know, and sometimes it's fun I mean, it's you know, I like seeing my friends like like I'm not gonna out enigma, but oh, yeah, I'm on the show I am outing enigma. He's pretty excited about he has some new partners and hopefully they're still together It's been a few weeks now But they've kind of moved up we talked about in the last show and of course I I love that when my friends are in that excitement And they have someone they connect with even though I don't have someone right now I just don't get but her about that I mean, maybe I do on my own away, but not about them You know what I mean?
I just get but her cuz I don't have in general But I'm really excited for him because he's a good guy He's a really good guy and I love him and so when I see him happy, that's great But I think there is a time limit to where they're mushing on each other and you're like Jesus fucking get a room Christ Yeah, yeah, yeah, it can be it can be a little imposing but in general I don't care I'm happy you're fucking happy. Why should I be the only you know, why should everyone be miserable like me? Yeah, I mean and Paul you try to aim for Comperaging where it's just like you know if you and I were dating and you were to go off with another girl And I'd be like, oh cool They look so cute together because even like my ex husband and his current fiancee they were polypartners Well, we were still married and I would look at them and kind of go that's so cute But now I kind of look at it when they start getting okay, see you love you and stuff like I can't look at it anymore because it's just there's times that it's just they make comments about like spanking each other and chasing each other Around the room and I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, it's good to a point But I think what the posters also trying to remember, you know Have people remember is whether it's monogamy or poly or whatever and great and she's focusing mostly on poly that you can't you can't be Having all this new relationship energy and only that other partner out that other partner has to be taken care of has to be reassured When I was in a poly relationship and I had the two I was a poly husband. I was kind of worked with me where if I spent time with one that would push me back toward the others So that we had tried to make it as symmetrical as possible Sure, so that way it didn't feel like anybody was left out very good very good now I'm gonna go into the NRE and the dangers of NRE chasing because it is high I mean it is an absolute out there that whole fucking thing where the world stops and you guys are connected and it's you know It's a great feeling.
It's a great high, but it can be very expensive if you Don't see the future coming because if all you are concerned about is that high that high is going to end It does for literally the vast vast majority because it's a chemical. It's a neurotransmitter It's part of evolution and biology and you can you know keep it going for a certain amount of time But after a certain amount of time just like fucking using heroin, you know the first time you use a little bit You're blasted out of your mind and then you build a tolerance for it. Their farts don't smell as cute anymore Their their little nuances and quirks aren't as entertaining anymore And then you're like all of a sudden some of that feeling and that energy is like okay I could go a day without seeing them and then if you haven't built something other than that you're now beginning to end your relationship and it can go for a long time or it can happen real quick if you only rely on that Lovey-dovey feeling you're doomed period you have to have a plan in your relationship You have to have a plan beyond the fairy tale because that that chemical is going to dissipate At a certain point and if at the end of that you don't have a goal with that partner Then what do you have what do you have what do we see people are like all in love and then they get together They get married and then they squirt out a kid and then it's just like oh now We just live to fucking watch this kids rule and take it to soccer And then we watch Netflix at night and your relationship is dead Or you don't have the kid and your relationship is dead and now you're just watching Netflix You have to invest in that relationship You have to find something that you have in common that you can challenge each other with and whether that's a certain hobby that you guys Are both into the same thing or you take on some sort of Volunteer situation where maybe you do a certain activity together where you start to rely on each other during that activity There has to be like a bigger goal for what you guys are doing together you understand what I'm saying Yeah, and I'll even take that one step further where when that chemical starts to wear off You may start looking at that person going oh, they're not as cute as they were in it And I've seen it with some people around me where they take that and they start to resent that and they start to go you changed Yes, you know that person didn't change that chemical wore off and whatever is left after that chemical wears off Is that real person and the same thing that you are you know that other person's gonna look you go well? She doesn't do this anymore.
Well, she doesn't do that anymore Well, no, it's the chemical wearing off so now the chemical you know It's kind of like getting drunk and waking up the next morning and it's like okay taking a look around going all right What if I got left here, you know, so like Frankenstein Yeah, if you haven't done that work and if you haven't based put a good base in your relationship of talking doing stuff You know building a friendship with their relationship when that chemical wears off You're gonna be in for a rude awakening going I don't know if I want this person anymore And it doesn't mean I mean the idea that these chemicals can be reintroduced and that's where a lot of people and we've gotten those letters A lot of relationships have been saved by kink. Yes, you know They were completely in like a dead thing going on But then they found kink together and they found things in common and they started exploring that together and it revitalized that energy Because now they had something that was erotic But it took work because kink takes work. You have to learn how to do things you have to communicate you have to be a part of What your partner is thinking and feeling you work off each other's energy to build that place in and that is something that a lot of people have really Helped grown their relationship, but even that once you leave the sexual you have to find those things in common with your partner Because if not just like you said it's gonna lead to like resentment cheating or murder It's like that's pretty much where it's going and you have to I mean even if you want to take like I hate to use word spiritual but like even if you're journeying with your partner on like a well-being path like you're doing like Meditation or self-help groups like witchcraft, you know, I don't know nothing says love and like sacrificing a cat with your partner Like it'll bring you closer Hey, I'm Satan. No red bread everything.
No, but you get the point that there is a path like you and I That's my longest relationship is you and I we had a very specific path With her getting into med school and her education And it was something that was very symbiotic and it validated me and it helped her and we worked through that and then there was Other personal things in her life and in my life that we worked on together And then of course we did have a love for anime together, which is TV. So it's kind of shaky but like if we were going to the comic cons together or you know, you're in a larper group, you know live action roleplay group and you're doing Something together or you're in a softball leaguer do things beyond just the sex because that feeling does fade and The more connected you get in the more things go with me on this the more chance you have to revitalize Maybe not in as much of the intensity continuous as the NRE was in the beginning But you can get that high back in wonderful moments Because you've built that connection with all these other parts of your relationship and then you have those moments where you do a bunch Of work together and then you do get that wow, I really love this person. I really care about I really want to be around this person Yeah, every relationship whether it be monogamous or poly it's gonna have its own every flow and there's gonna be times where I know What's the work in there's good times you're gonna have to put the work in no matter how tired you are I remember I was listening to a relationship podcast, you know, they always say relationships are 50 50 it's not 50 50 It needs to be a hundred a hundred where it's like you're giving your best they're giving their best And yes, there may be times you can only get 80% But you can't put in 10% to relationship and expect it to work and especially with all those putting the time in with communicating and building Those relationships put down the damn phones I can't tell you how many times I see people on a date in a restaurant and they're texting across to each other and it's like you're sitting And it's just like your son's I have this mag don't it's hand cuz I'll pick up his phone I'm like, nope my time my time put the phone down, you know, not unless you get to show me a funny meme that hey, hey Hey, this is funny and then put the phone back down. No phones go away and we sit there and talk I don't care if it's, you know, how's the local sports team and blah blah blah put the time in yeah I completely agree I completely agree that there's work and and I know that most of our listeners Understand this and so we're surely not saying this as if these are things that you don't hear or understand yourself But it is important that we support each other because a lot of times that energy starts to end and then we wonder why our Relationship feels dead and it's because you're not putting any life into it if you're in a relationship Where one side is trying to put life in it and the other isn't you're not gonna you're not gonna win in that relationship That's one person carrying on you know, that's one person.
Yeah, so that being said and I know that in the post and and other people they talk about New relationship energy chasing as kind of a negative and I'm gonna go on the moderate route and say it is absolutely fine If the only thing you want in a relationship is that goopy excited time and then leave yeah That's absolutely fine You're able to chase whatever you want with your partners What shitty is when you make someone fall for you and make them think that you're in it for the long haul when you're just in it for the high and That and that is something that I have not intentionally But that I've done because I don't I don't want long relationships. I've had a couple mew was very you know I keep talking to you nominally that was mew But most of my relationships last maybe a year year and a half and then most of my lovers are just usually a few months and And one of us just kind of goes away But I let people know up front now what I'm looking for and I tell people I put it on my profile I tell people in nauseam on the podcast. I want to be a stepping stone. I do not want to be a permanent fixture in anybody's life Because that's a shitty thing to do to make someone think that you're going to always be there and that they can create Some long-term plans.
I mean even my long thing with mew was seven years and now it's over like we're just buddies now That's over. There's no old age holding hands on a park. I'd be the only old one She'd be a pretty hot old lady, but you know She'd be she'd be whole Michael Austin me back. That's for damn sure or my pea jugs You know either way and God bless her Jesus fucking bless her.
Hey, I'll say it and kill cats. No, don't I like it But I digress a lot of activity going on at the park right now I think is a when she brings up the point that there may be some people that don't realize they're chasing that new relationship energy They're just basically looking for that new hot thing the new shiny thing and it's like that shiny thing starts to wear off It's like move on and it's just like I don't think people realize that they're chasing new relationship energy They're just chasing a piece of the only one of the latest and greatest thing, you know Yeah, I mean, it's just something to take a look at yourself, you know some people cuz sometimes it's like Prince Charming syndrome and Prince Charming syndrome. I've talked about this in a long time Prince Charming syndrome is a real thing and it's or Princess Charming whatever It's I really want to believe that I'm awesome I really want to believe that I can save the princess and and you know fulfill the things and happily ever after and so I Say that because I like the way it sounds in my head But I'm not that person and I don't have those skills nor do I have the desire to stick it out So a lot of people say that shit a lot of people say what not only they think you want to hear maliciously But they say what they think they want to hear themselves say they wish they could be that but they can't and you have to really Take a look at yourself and go am I really this person or am I just chasing a high good post? It's definitely an interesting post.
Yeah, thank you again to the King Shrink I'll make sure I put up on the verded podcast page on Fed Life's that what you read is a very long post But it's got a lot of information in there is Can you world news a social today? I don't know that's asking Nick Ma. He should know because he's got the same name. Well, I think my let's just hope that I get the whole show on this a lot happens in between path girl and you and A lot of stuff that the perverted podcast listeners don't give a shit about but let me tell you Doesn't always work out real well in Zencaster land and 15 hours with people trying to get your tracks that you recorded It's a nightmare, but we're here.
Let's see. Yes, and you know if any of our listeners want to help us get on a better program They can donate a patreon. God dear God A place with clear internet and I wasn't recording in parks and storage units maybe a little bit better But right right but hell man. I'm just glad to be talking to you about some fun stuff today and anything fun going on with you I mean my me and tea.
She's the partner. Yes things with yeah We this last night we you know we made it official. Oh congratulations. Thank you But yeah, no, we're having a lot of fun together We're both holly and so like I I have other potential play things going on But she's definitely the one that's been the most focused on as of late and so yeah She's just been a lot of fun playing with her and kind of exploring with her.
That is awesome. So you've been using lots of fingers Yes, lots of fingers lots of pals I don't remember if I told on the last one, but she voluntarily came in and played with the fuckbox. Yes. Yes.
Oh good girl. Good girl Yeah, that's a recording of that orgasm to you by the way. I know I did not have I did not have okay I mean, I mean, I didn't mean like sneak it. Well, no, no.
Yes. She has to say thank you perverted podcast at the end That would be a fun. Oh, no, honey. We're just doing a roleplay Because I'm so in this pretending we're just pretending it's for the podcast.
I'm so into the show that pays me nothing to come in Every month and fucking deal with boogie shit. I just I just love it so much. Just please say this at the end so we can just keep that Keep the role play. Yeah, I'm glad you're here enigma and I think even in the last segment yesterday I gushed about you a little bit and uh, and I am genuinely just happy That your relationships are uh are working out and I'm not saying that like all but hurt, you know Because fuck it dude.
I've had fucking tons of pussy my fucking whole life I can be just genuinely happy. I think you're a really good person and I love hearing when you're excited and you get kind of giddy About your relationships and uh, and it's cool. It's just fucking cool, man. I'm real happy for you Well, thank you very much, but now that we've had our giant fucking Potentially gay bromance fucking moment Uh, we got a couple topics.
Why don't we start with the the article first and then we'll do the right after that very interesting All right, so good. All right. So our our article comes from the New York post And it is so delightly entitled men with golden penis syndrome are ruining sex and dating for It's a pretty good statement to start with it's pretty great So men with college degree is this specifically takes the study that this is coming from is based out of New York But men with college degrees have become so cocky that they they are ruining romance Men are the minority of college students. Uh, so it's so they are in high demand and the dating pool on college campuses Because of the lack of competition many men have gained some arrogance due to the simpleence And Manhattan specifically college educated men are the minority three to one Okay, and men haven't been a majority since 1981.
Wow, uh, not only are men with golden penis syndrome more likely to treat their dates badly They also seem to not care as much about their personal hygiene. So, you know, oh, that's great Yeah, they think they have the best dick because they're one of the few days but then they don't clean it But then they don't care about it. Yeah, they know I won't get into the entire grooming that I did for no one in particular in storage Earlier yesterday, but uh, let's let us continue Yeah, so and it's a pretty short article if you want to check it out, uh, please do Uh, but the what what what I found kind of interesting was because there's there's the there's the the phrase of like all the good Men are taken well in New York where this article in this research study took place apparently a lot of the good ones are gay Yes, dating pool even more. Wow.
This is uh, this is kind of I mean Look, this is like kind of a convoluted and nuanced topic I'm not gonna you know, it sounds funny But I mean really my first thought after reading this was why the fucking mind not enrolling in college courses That was really the first thing that struck me about this article I immediately went to my local junior college and tried to see what classes were available because if the ratio and nigma Are you with me on this? I mean now you have people a few months ago. You would have been all over this idea with me I mean, no, I mean I have it thought about going back to school for many reasons Not just for the the proverbial posse But um, I can imagine that that that would be the case in a lot of colleges not just New York because I am totally willing to offer these young ladies My tin foil peens probably not golden. I mean, it's definitely I clean.
It's not sure. Yeah, but it's uh, it's probably not you know Not the highest level tip, but I'm not Exactly. I'm not uh, I'm not cocky I just uh, I just wanted to date awesome women So uh, but other than that that was just my first uh, my first instinct And of course it makes me kind of sad to see these kind of statistics and articles coming out But I kind of wonder go with me on this I kind of wonder is this problem just about uneven ratios and then that building Uh, this type of bad behavior or do you think it's more kind of the The last 10 years of like the social disconnect kind of seeing humans is something that we don't even have to consider anymore I I think there's definitely a commodification aspect of it because um, you know, we see this I can even see this relating to people over here who Um, uh, you know for like gender pricing, whatever it's like they pay a lot of money They expect they're expecting a certain thing, right? And so I can see this happening at college campuses where they paid a lot of money and And they're in the minority and they're getting college educated And so there's there's a lot of reasons why I can see some people not not even just specifically men Just people in general starting to take that sort of um, that kind of elitism and taking it to heart unfortunately And just becoming and it's like, oh, yeah, no, I'm all of these great things Of course you should be, you know, uh, fawning over me at every at every turn So I can definitely see that twisting people's brains a little bit.
Yeah, and I don't even if it's not about the cockiness it's just what's disturbing is the You know, there's there's one thing to be confident and if you got the skills be confident If you got the dick skills and the social skills and you're a great person and you know how to do a lot of things There is nothing wrong with being confident and even a little cocky because you're competitive against other men for if you're competing for women That's that's normal. So I don't mind the cockiness It's just kind of like when you hear about the poor hygiene and the ghosting and the you know, they're just being shitty to women Or to whoever you're choosing. I think that has more of kind of social implications Instead of just the ratio because it's kind of like like I don't know I watch a lot of social media and then I I see all these youtube and tick-tock videos endless where there's like Five or ten like pro man influencers and then there's like five or ten probably even more like pro women influencers And they're they're both talking about the other But it's not in an understanding. Hey men are from Venus women are from Mars kind of thing.
It's more like a battle plan It's more like a negativity. It's more like these motherfuckers kind of thing to kind of bolster like their side And and that creates because we're already socially with gender with race with politics with religion with all of these things We're getting very very polarized and we're segregating more and more more than I've ever seen in my life at 50 almost 55 More segregation than I've ever seen in my life is happening now and it's just seems like it's kind of Everything's this perfect storm of eventually just treating people shitty. Nobody looks at people everyone's on their phone You know not being an old man, but it's just true as we disconnect more and more and we segregate more and more We can't fix something like this unless we learn how to value each other again I mean, I definitely see a the lack of value like I mean just outside of the dating pool Like I'm I do delivery. I work around masses of people all the time And just the amount of people like the entitlement that people are feeling in a lot of ways is definitely something that has that I agree has definitely gotten worse in some respects Um over the last I don't know five ten years of just people people expecting other people to Uh to do what they want and that that's not how the world works um, and I I I I agree I generally wish people would be more considerate for each other think about each other and I That that's something that should be in the dating pool as well as just you know life Yeah, it's it's definitely interesting.
I was actually talking to uh to me this morning. Uh, well, she's in med school She's doing great by the way everyone Um almost done with her third year ready to go into her fucking fourth year where she actually goes and starts running to get in her residency Uh very very exciting But we talked a little bit about this because I knew we were gonna talk about this today You could in the six minutes that she has to spare for me Uh, you know, we talk about what anime are watching, uh, you know, am I not dead? Am I going to the doctors and uh, you know, maybe some social commentary and I asked her because she's like a millennial She's like old now. She's an old buck and grandma now at like 28 years old and uh, and so but even when she was a kid She didn't get her first cell phone until she was like in seventh grade And that was a crappy cell phone.
You couldn't play games on it or you know, do social media There still wasn't uh really strong social media then there was like youtube and maybe my space Um and stuff like that but it wasn't very developed and on your phone, you know, most phones didn't have that much, uh processing speed So she was forced to play with people to go outside to interact with people But now it's very difficult because that dopamine rush is so strong Like I can't tell you i'm in the market if there's a toddler in a basket most of the time It it's it has a tablet It has some sort of fucking thing and it's just pushing buttons and uh, so it shuts up And the parents don't have to kind of deal with it. I guess but uh, I think You can't expect it to not be more detached if there's never been a separation from not interacting with people, right? I know we're definitely at a point where everybody is connected all the time and like, um, D like that's something that we've laughed about is like she is very much not connected to Social media like like yes, we like became felt like official, but she's barely on there She's she technically has other social media, but like those she's very inactive on like it's it's just been very interesting being in a relationship Which being in a relationship with somebody who isn't as connected as I am like I I do a lot of performing So like I do photography I run several social media like I am incredibly connected to social media And so interacting and being in a relationship with somebody who's not is is kind of refreshing Is it do you do you notice because she's not into the whole thing? Um, do you find that she makes more eye contact is more interested in your feelings?
Oh like her her communication like like I was swimming over her communication style before I I fully got like Invested in us as a relationship just having somebody because like she's she's incredibly good at communicating feelings and thoughts And and we've been having a great time kind of navigating Polyamory that way and pink that way and just like everything she's just been incredibly communicative Um, and like I was fawning over over her and like telling friends like I realize this this kind of sounds like the bare minimum But she's incredibly good at communication and that and that is making me fall for her so much So like yeah, I I think engaging with somebody who's not as plugged in to the commodification of of communication and like that We've gotten to at this point is it's oddly refreshing and it's something that I wish I could go back to Yeah, because I mean you can't argue and now that they're doing all the studies with dopamine and how it releases and how it releases Per screen and these colors on the screen It's it's starting to get to like almost drug levels To where you can't replace that you can't replace that in the brain once you've been saturated with it So it's like putting down the phone and looking at a bird or a tree or something is like oh this this is fucking stupid You know you want that dopamine rush though I don't know stuff like this There is there something that can be done or can we just in our own personal lives try to be aware of it And like path girl said in the last segment, you know, um Or this was when we talk I don't know what whatever she said to me at some point That she makes her partner put down their phone when they're having dinner and that they have little things in place That it's not like we're being anti technology or anti whatever But we have to also understand and put on our big kit pants and understand that these flashing lights do something to our brain That makes us disinterested in humanity and the life around us because we're more it's giving us more dopamine So we actually have to kind of challenge that and say okay for this event for this walk for this dinner for this time together Let's just make a plan to not have those things and I know this is not golden penis But it just seemed like a good jump off point for not being a fuddy-duddy about technology because there's nothing we can do about it It's going we're gonna have chips planted in our head within the next 40 years We're gonna be completely replaced in our workforce by robots in 200 years. It's you know, it's coming Right. It's it is coming. Well, and yeah, but I think what happened Um, somewhat recently over covid is the whole idea of I think people were Becoming less can like because of how connected we got had to be Because of because of covid and social distancing and all of that.
Um, I think a lot of people started turning to in-person meetups When whenever they could like the the rate that people started jumping on meeting in person I was incredibly shocked that like yeah, I was in parks and stuff But like I still see people like going like hey, let's let's go hang out of park and let's go have a picnic And let's go do stuff in person as opposed to digital like I think I think what we'll see And I think we see this a lot of times when like We have big societal shifts is you have Um, it kind of go all the extreme in one direction And then once once people kind of figure out what things are it kind of swings back in the other And so I think so I think right now we're still I think we're starting to swing away from Being overly connected overly stimulated like my my sister and my nephews like they they are She's very strict about like how much like screen time they get every day Oh, this can so like they are they are not like yes, they have um, I pass that they play on but they're only allowed to do them like Maybe an hour a day. And so yeah, so like like I think that's something that I'm hearing from a lot of parents Is trying to keep their kids from being as um, you know, internet connected as um as our generation was because you know Like my generation like I I got into as a kid like I got a cell phone in middle school And so I started but like an elementary school or an early middle school I didn't have one and then I started to get like I I have grown up with the internet and with like all of this digital technology And so like it's it's very interesting like like you said like watching kids who are who have been born into The height of it being and parents who don't know what else to do or just like throwing the right path at their kid Um, and so I I think it'll take some effort. I think we're gonna start swinging back the other way I hope so. I hope there's definitely At least a shift to try to find balance and that's all I ever ask or I love technology and all the interesting things it gets to do I can't wait to have a fake spine.
I can't wait to have a fake heart Uh that you know, I can explore the world longer without pain and suffering I am totally into that whole thing but I do like humanity even though I hate humans It's really kind of a dichotomy or cognitive dissonance But uh, but the idea that we kind of have to work to keep our humanity alive And if we don't we're gonna see more statistics like this with golden penis and and the segregation and us versus them And it's not gonna bring joy. It's it's just that's it's just gonna bring more More fighting and more stress and more fight or flight and uh, and uh, I hope we can get away from that I did too. It was a good topic and god dammit if I'm not gonna try to enroll in some private college classes I think I can get funding for it too. So I will I'll do it and then just be there and be like hey You ready to scrape the bottom of that motherfucking barrel, baby Because I am here.
I am the pickle at the bottom All right. Oh, this is my topic. Oh, sorry. I'm like come on and maybe I get with your shit All right, let's let's real quick take on this one I think we'll both mostly agree, but I think there's some really good points about this too I was on the reds hanging out on the redness and I was like oh, I want something else for us to talk about golden penis So it was fun.
Let's get something else The first thing that popped up. I was like, oh, I'm pretty sure enigma and I will have things to say about this Are male dominance more likely to be averse to oral sex because it's a submissive act And then the question was I've heard a male dominant say he doesn't perform oral sex on a woman because It feels like a submissive act to him Thoughts question mark And I'm like that's a wonderful question and I I responded to them and took about an hour and a half to really dig into My thoughts on this first of course very arrogant and pushy But then I tried to come to some balance too. So why don't you go ahead and go first? Oh, yeah, no, when you sent me that I um my response was oh, I have so many thoughts Um, most of them are just circle around.
Um, no, it's it's not a submissive act I like yes me and d are pretty switchy with each other But like I can go down on her and tease her and edger and and be incredibly cruel while going down on her And but like it's not it's not like she can also turn it into a submissive act But like it's not In it's not in and of itself a submissive act. Yes, you might be on your knees Yes, you might be under her But like that doesn't make it a submissive act it makes it a really fun intimate act that can be kind of pulled in either direction Depending on how the dynamic is I absolutely agree I have so many thoughts about this and good thoughts too because this is an honest struggle For a lot of people that they're like am I dominant am I submissive am I am I and we're gonna get into count bookies rants against titles And the bear trap that is affixing yourself to a specific title because my first question is if you have to question your desires Or actions on whether or not they will appear dominant or submissive That's a submissive point of view And the reason it's a submissive point of view is because you're actually submitting to an ideal over the fact that you want to have control over your desires Yeah, I'm now submitting to what other doms say is dominance I'm now submitting to whatever the ideal that that's not dominant or this isn't dominant or you have to do this to be a dominant If I'm not doing those things because it's not dominant enough then that's submissive I'm submitting to something else. I'm not being in charge of myself I'm not saying this is what I want to do. I have created this dynamic specifically with my partners To be in charge of this dynamic They have trusted and respected me to a point to where they allow me To take control in certain Aspects of our relationship and then we determine how many of those aspects and some are very extreme and detailed and some are just in play and whatever But if I have to suck up to some ideal that oh, I can't do that because that's that's not dominant Then I'm not being a dominant the word dominant is is about taking control and about being in charge of that situation If I want to put on a red dress smear lipstick poorly over my mouth put on a giant blonde wig which would look terrifying And then eat my partner's pussy while I have another partner fuck me in the ass with a whole bag of fucking lemons You aren't you have no say in what my dominance is if I told them to do that Then in our dynamic that's me taking control of that situation and doing what I want to do And having them perform tasks on me that I like right which would be again fucked in the ass with a bag full of lemons Which I've never done right but I'm assuming that's an adventurous An adventurous desire if I don't desire doing that then I'll say keep the lemons away from my ass I'm not interested in doing that and as if I'm in charge of this place scene then I'm I'm not submitting to you Right you are submitting to me.
Yeah, and there's a lot of like you can have definitely like very very strict ds relationships Where the d and the relationship they sometimes like to get flogged and so yeah, absolutely Yeah, and so they will have they will have a submissive who maybe they're good at blogging Maybe part of the dynamic is teaching this submissive how to vlog because maybe that submissive one's a top But whatever whatever the dynamic is like that that could be part of the dynamic It's like their service to their dominant is they're gonna flog their dominant on occasion Um, so like the the act doesn't matter. It's the dynamics the relationships and negotiation that matters and it's nuanced specifically Towards that couple or amount of partners. Mm-hmm. I don't give a fuck What you think of my fucking dynamic?
Because if I did that means I'm submitting to your will not mine And I wish you could see the aggression of my middle fingers that I'm throwing into imaginary dominant faces To suck my fucking dick. I'm not in your dynamic and you're not in mine So I don't give a fuck if you think I'm a submissive or a switch or a service top or whatever You aren't in charge of me and your validation doesn't mean shit to me If I want to eat fucking pussy in my relationship, I'll fucking eat pussy And I get to fuck what you think I like it and if I do it specifically to give my bottom pleasure That's still my fucking choice. I don't give a fuck what you call me My name's boogie dominant and submissive just like every other title I fucking rant against It's a word. It's just a word And if your whole life revolves around whether or not you can affix that word to yourself and have an identity and pretend you're faking it You're literally a fraud And that's neither dominant nor submissive and it's shirring powerful and it's shirring a power exchange Mother fuckers Fucking grumpy Just be what you are with your partners If you are the person that wants to be in charge of those scenes in that dynamic whatever level that is Then that's your dominance.
It should be your dominance and your submissive and your switchiness It should not be anyone else's because that's inauthentic And you deserve to be whatever you are and if it doesn't qualify for someone else, fuck that motherfucker I agree But like I think I'll just like I think if you haven't tried it Maybe you're averse to it like talk to your partner and and try it out like it It may it may feel a little weird at first, but like like talk to your partners to see what they see what they like see what they enjoy And maybe you can find a way to Get into it that doesn't necessarily feel one way or the other and can feel more dominant or whatever But like the best thing I do is is like our lovely Lindsey Dose says stay curious give it a try and see how you feel about after I um, I don't mean to shoot down you or dr. Doe I am still gonna hold off on the getting fucked with a bag of lemons thing No, that's fair I'm just gonna say you know everyone's like oh, I never say no to anything. You know what not fucking to go Not gonna do it. I'm it might feel good to my dick It may go man and feel great, but I'm just gonna not try everything once just gonna do it.
I'll be approved Not fucking to go no lemons up the ass and uh, I used to wear a lot of dresses. Um, I don't look good in them anymore I can respect that fucking ago thing, but you know, but you never know you might be curious to try a lemon at some point down the future Well, I have a lot of people say this if that's not my type of sex and not even that I don't like anal or or that type of thing Um, I'm just like you don't have to try everything If you if it's like, no, it doesn't really sound good. Just because it feels good doesn't doesn't mean It's gonna make me happy. There's any good fucking revolution on your elbow.
It feels good You don't have to well you do because you're gonna be ashy and you're gonna have really ugly elbows. Um, believe me I know when you get old but you know the point Be who you are have your own dynamic and god, you know, I understand that We when we're new and we hear these terms we want to kind of live up to it But it's just like the second you Get too carried away with giving yourself that title you start changing yourself to adhere to the Idea of that title and not your authentic self and that's sad and I did that for most of my life I did with christianity. I even did it early in my uh my kink career I've done it in a lot of areas of my life and it just made me sad and now you just think you should uh Yeah, I'm ranting. I'm sorry.
No, no, I I think it's a press-frame topic for a lot of people in the dominant space who Or in the play in the kink space or whatever space you're in like putting putting labels on something that doesn't necessarily need a label Yeah, um and I think oral sex in general doesn't mean anything to be necessarily going down on a hold up But just like going down on anybody in general like it's it's not one dynamic or another it can be either I agree enigma and let me tell you fucking girly points for calling it the vulva instead of the vagina like that's good job Good job, the vulva's on the outside of the dinas on the on the inside. Yes, uh man. Look at that We should enroll in college courses. I'm telling you we would get the fucking tang for days, man I mean my my student loans have yet to be forgiven so i'm gonna hold off on that until maybe that happens Oh, no throw everything away go bankrupt and be homeless like me and they'll fucking pay for your education because they want you to get a job or something Yeah, yeah, just be a loser come on and they've been jump on board.
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