38: The Truth About Motherhood Nobody Talks About (Q&A Episode)

Why do people think it’s okay to walk into a new mom’s house and say, “I’m only here to see the baby”?In this episode, we unpack the wildest (and most relatable) questions you sent in—from rude postpartum visitors to homeschooling, budgeting, and how to know when you’re ready for another baby. We talk about why moms deserve more care after birth, why “socialization” for homeschoolers is misunderstood, and how to stand firm in your choices when people don’t get your lifestyle.We open up about our postpartum recovery stories, the breastfeeding myths that won’t die, and the real way we handle marriage, money, and motherhood. There’s laughter, a few hot takes, and a whole lot of truth about what it means to raise a family while staying true to your values.You’ll hear:• The rude things people say to new moms — and how they should be treating you after birth.• Postpartum boundaries 101: who’s allowed to visit and why “I’m only here to see the baby” is not okay.• Crunchy mom hacks like the perfect-peel hard-boiled eggs, favorite non-toxic toothpaste, and iron-boosting foods.• The myth about breastfeeding and cavities (and what real biological dentists say).• Homeschooling truth: why “socialization” isn’t what people think.• What postpartum recovery really feels like — bleeding, hormones, and why you shouldn’t rush back out.• Balancing mom life with budgeting: how both husbands track every penny (and how to actually feel safe spending money).• Infertility talk — why “unexplained infertility” isn’t the end of the story.• Raising healthy eaters without “kid food” and how to skip grains, sugar, and juice entirely.• The moms’ honest thoughts on Florida vs. Midwest life, guilty pleasures, and future family plans.• A sneak peek at an upcoming episode featuring the husbands talking stocks, budgeting, and taxes (yes, seriously!).Timestamps:[0:00] Q&A kickoff: “I’m only here to see the baby” — why that’s not okay[2:00] The secret to perfect hard-boiled eggs[3:00] Social media, marriage, and God moments[5:00] Can you educate others without toxicity?[6:00] Best kids’ toothpaste (Fig Feed vs Zebra)[8:00] The truth about breastfeeding and cavities[9:00] Homeschooling & socialization myths[13:00] Guilty pleasures and Love Is Blind hot takes[16:00] Fiber, food freedom & mainstream health myths[17:00] Newborn rules: visitors, postpartum recovery & vaccines[23:00] Hormones, newborn quirks & healing stories[25:00] Midwest vs Florida life[26:00] Budgeting as a couple & money mindset[33:00] Supplements for iron & breastfeeding[34:00] Speaking up about your beliefs & boundaries[36:00] Infertility & root causes[39:00] Feeding kids real food vs “kid food” culture[41:00] How many kids do we want & why motherhood never endsResources Mentioned:• Ask the Dentist / Fig Feed Toothpaste – [@askthedentist on IG]• Zebra Toothpaste• Supreme Nutrition + Varia Vita supplements• Primal Queen Organ Capsules• Cast-iron cookware (for natural iron)• Holistic Mother on Instagram• Homeschool Co-Op Facebook groups• Bob’s Red Mill, King Arthur, Jovial Einkorn FlourConnect with us:Kate @thatcrunchymomkateJordan @themoderncrunchymumShop my favorite clean products & get 10% off here with code CRUNCHYMOMThe air purifier I trust at home - get $100 off hereOur go-to for pure, clean water - get $100 off here