38: You Don't Need the Whole Plan to Get Recruited

If you’ve been trying to approach recruiting like a step-by-step checklist, this episode will challenge the way you think about the process.In this episode, Susan shares a powerful analogy that reframes recruiting as a road trip instead of a fixed plan. Athletes and families often want the exact steps and a guaranteed path, but in reality, recruiting is about direction, not perfection.Susan breaks down why trying to map out every step can actually create more stress and confusion, and how focusing on the next move builds momentum and clarity over time. She also explains the role of a “copilot” in the recruiting process, and how the right guidance can make the journey smoother without taking away ownership from the athlete.For parents, this episode offers a helpful shift in perspective on how to best support your athlete without becoming the backseat driver, and why your role matters more than you think.If you’re feeling overwhelmed or stuck in the recruiting process, this episode will help you simplify your approach, build momentum, and keep moving forward.Chapters00:00 – Intro00:45 – Recruiting isn’t a step-by-step process01:45 – Why planning everything creates stress02:30 – Direction over perfection03:45 – Focus on the next step04:15 – The role of a recruiting guide05:45 – Action creates clarity07:00 – What this means for athletes08:00 – What this means for parents09:30 – Why outside support helps11:00 – Parents as the fuel, not the driver12:30 – What actually helps families most13:30 – Final takeaway: keep movingConnect with Susan:Check out the website: www.nxtvb.comFollow on Instagram + TikTok: @hey.susankwww.rallysend.comLooking for a better way to stay organized and manage your recruiting? Check out www.rallysend.com—our go-to recruiting software for athletes, families, and clubs. It streamlines communication with college coaches, saves hours on recruiting outreach, and helps you stay ahead of the biggest challenge in the recruiting process: time.Use code HEYSUSAN to save $5/month on a monthly subscription or $50 off an annual plan.