#388; Why do I struggle so much? why do i sabotage my own progress? if youve been trying for years to see your body lose fat, build muscle, transform...

If you’re exhausted from trying diet after diet without lasting success, you’re missing the real issue....the real question?Are you truly stuck, or is your mindset quietly sabotaging your progress? In this raw, powerful episode of "100% Real with Ruby," we're unpacking the uncomfortable truth behind feeling stuck and why surface-level fixes—like better time management—aren’t solving the real issues holding you backRuby dives deep into the psychology of self-sabotage, the critical importance of self-awareness, and why embracing temporary discomfort can lead to long-lasting change. Explore transformative concepts like her "second and third arrow" analogy, recalibrating expectations, and adopting the resilience of elite athletes to elevate your own journey. If you're tired of cycles of self-criticism, comparison, and frustration, this episode is your roadmap to breaking free and creating the mindset needed for real transformation.Self-sabotage isn’t random; it serves a hidden emotional purpose, often protecting you from potential pain, shame, or failure. Behaviors like emotional eating, procrastination, or avoiding challenging workouts are subconsciously designed to keep you from experiencing negative emotions tied to potential failure.Reflect: How is your current self-sabotage protecting you? What fear is it shielding you from?Action: Write down your negative patterns and explore the hidden benefits they provide. Challenge these patterns by asking yourself honestly: "Do these behaviors truly align with my goals?" Awareness is the first step toward meaningful change.