39: Staying Chosen and Cherished with Jon Van Viegen, MFT

Can fighting over text actually help your relationship? Therapist and author Jonathan Van Viegen thinks so—and his no-nonsense, anti-jargon approach to couples therapy is reshaping how partners communicate, connect, and build lasting love.In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jonathan to discuss:Why emotional flooding shuts down productive conversationThe problem with over-focusing on "triggers"Why traditional therapy labels like "attachment styles" can be harmfulHow to shift focus from problems to possibilitiesThe power of physical connection as a relationship barometerJonathan’s take on curiosity, self-reflection, and shared identityWhether you’re newlyweds or decades in, this conversation challenges the conventional and encourages couples to reimagine how they show up for one another—every single day.🧠 Learn more about Jonathan: Instagram: @jonathanvanviegen🌐 More episodes: www.thebulitts.com📲 Follow us everywhere: @TheBulitts🎙️ Hosted by Julie and David Bulitt