392: When You Feel Like You're Drowning in Your To-Dos

Overcoming Overwhelm: What to Do When You're Drowning in Your To-Do's One of the key insights from the podcast episode is the understanding that overwhelm is an emotion created by the thoughts in our heads. Host and Master Self-Image Coach Tonya Leigh explains that when we feel overwhelmed, we are often in a state of fight or flight, where our sympathetic nervous system is activated. This heightened state of stress and panic can make it challenging to think clearly and find solutions to our overwhelming to-do lists. To manage overwhelm effectively, Tonya suggests accessing the parasympathetic nervous system. This system is responsible for rest and digest functions, promoting a state of calm and relaxation. By engaging the parasympathetic nervous system, we can counteract the fight or flight response and regain clarity of thought. She reflects on her own journey through overwhelm and provides tools to help listeners manage and conquer their to-do lists effectively. If you've ever felt like you're drowning in tasks, this episode is a must-listen for practical advice and inspiration. Talking Points: 00:00 - Introduction to Feeling Overwhelmed 05:30 - Overcoming Overwhelm with Self-Care 0:22 - Filtering To-Do List with the Four D's 13:04 - Providing Clarity through Scheduling 4:06 - Releasing Perfectionism for Productivity 16:28 - Embracing the Journey, Not the Destination 18:26 - Celebrating Choices and Finding Inner Peace 20:10 - Empowering Action with Dream Life Masterclass Quotes: "What to do when you feel like you're drowning in your to-do's." "I want to be like that bird. I want to be able to find my stillness. "Who you're being is up to you." "Because if you take action off of guilt and fear over and over, you're just building a life that feels like a prison." "Tonya, you're never going to be done. So stop trying to get to that place that doesn't exist and learn to enjoy the day that you're in." Useful Resources: FREE Training: https://schoolofselfimage.com/after FREE Download: https://schoolofselfimage.com/self-image-manifesto Sign up for the weekly Edit: http://schoolofselfimage.com/edit   Connect with Self-Image Coach, Tonya Leigh: Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetonyaleigh YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TonyaLeighOfficial