#396 – James Sexton: Divorce Lawyer on Marriage, Relationships, Sex, Lies & Love

James Sexton is a divorce attorney and author. Please support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: – Eight Sleep: https://www.eightsleep.com/lex to get special savings – InsideTracker: https://insidetracker.com/lex to get 20% off – House of Macadamias: https://houseofmacadamias.com/lex and use code LEX to get 20% off first order – MasterClass: https://masterclass.com/lexpod to get 15% off – AG1: https://drinkag1.com/lex to get 1 month supply of fish oil Transcript: https://lexfridman.com/james-sexton-transcript EPISODE LINKS: James’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/nycdivorcelaw James’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer James’s Website: https://nycdivorces.com/our-attorneys How to Stay in Love (book): https://amzn.to/3t61uji If You’re in My Office, It’s Already Too Late (audiobook): https://amzn.to/3PkVECg PODCAST INFO: Podcast website: https://lexfridman.com/podcast Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2lwqZIr Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2nEwCF8 RSS: https://lexfridman.com/feed/podcast/ YouTube Full Episodes: https://youtube.com/lexfridman YouTube Clips: https://youtube.com/lexclips SUPPORT & CONNECT: – Check out the sponsors above, it’s the best way to support this podcast – Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/lexfridman – Twitter: https://twitter.com/lexfridman – Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexfridman – LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lexfridman – Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lexfridman – Medium: https://medium.com/@lexfridman OUTLINE: Here’s the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) – Introduction (09:01) – Why marriages fail (30:32) – Sex and fetishes (39:49) – Breakups (1:05:35) – Johnny Depp and Amber Heard (1:25:36) – Complicated divorce cases (1:32:22) – Cheating with the nanny (1:34:39) – Relationship advice (1:43:20) – Cost of divorce (2:05:11) – Prenups (2:19:33) – Cheating (2:27:17) – Open marriages and threesomes (2:40:05) – Sex and fighting (3:05:00) – Kevin Costner’s divorce (3:14:44) – Lying (3:22:12) – Productivity (3:30:06) – Jiu Jitsu (3:38:38) – Sex, love, and marriage