396: "You Never Help with Bedtime!": The Marriage Fight on Repeat (and how to fix it) with April Eldemire, LMFT

“Why am I the only one who knows when the kids need a bath… or that bedtime isn’t optional?” If that sounds like your internal monologue on repeat, you’re not alone—and you’re not crazy. When you’re constantly stuck in the same fight about chores, parenting, or just feeling alone in the relationship, it’s more than frustrating—it’s exhausting. This week, we’re joined by licensed therapist and marriage alignment expert April Eldemire, LMFT, who shares why the issue isn’t love, but a lack of clarity. She walks us through a simple 4-part ritual that helps couples reconnect, reduce resentment, and get back on the same team. So if you’re tired of doing it all (and being the one who always has to bring it up), this episode gives you the words, the structure, and the encouragement to shift things—for good. Resources We Shared: Learn more about April and her work HERE. Feeling buried under an endless to-do list? Snag our FREE Home Responsibility Calculator and figure out exactly what to delegate—without the guilt Want to keep the convo going? Come hang out with us in the FREE No Guilt Mom Podcast Community—real talk, support, and zero mom guilt. Visit No Guilt Mom Follow us on Instagram! Explore our No Guilt Mom Amazon Shop filled with juicy parenting reads and guest favorites!  Rate & Review the No Guilt Mom Podcast on Apple here. We’d love to hear your thoughts on the podcast! Listen on Spotify? You can rate us there too! Love the show? Show it some love back by checking out our ah-maz-ing sponsors who help keep it all going—right here! Access the full episode transcript HERE #parentingpodcast #parentingtips #selfcare #MentalLoad #kids #teenager #toddler #preschooler, #baby, #noguiltmom, #YouNeverHelpWithBedtime, #InvisibleLoad, #MarriageIsHard, #ModernMarriage, #MomBurnout, #MarriageHelp, #ExhaustedMom, #MarriageAdviceForMoms, #DefaultParent, #connection, #ParentingAndMarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices