#397 | Every People-Pleaser Needs to Know This

Send us Fan MailHave you ever said yes when everything inside you screamed no? In today’s raw and honest episode, we explore the hidden cost of people-pleasing through Bianca’s vulnerable story and hard-earned wisdom. Together, we unpack how the craving for love and acceptance can slowly lead us to abandon ourselves and how we can choose differently. If you've ever felt the sting of regret after putting yourself last, this conversation is for you.Here’s the episode related to today’s discussion and why we highly recommend listening to it as well:#379 | What is Your Go-To Shame Response? - https://apple.co/43utfSY #386 | The #1 Skill You Need to Learn to Be Happy - https://apple.co/4k0TRjpOut of the Mud (OOTM): "The Skills for Being a Great Partner" - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/-tSEztgpRHaPogd-Z2Xbbg#/registrationLearn more about the On-Demand Therapy - #YouDoYou Program: https://evolveventurestech.com/therapy/_________________Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech  (Public Page)Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/Emilia’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithemiliaBianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/Bianca’s Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithbianca?_t=8gq3wqu4fAx&_r=1   Connect with Emilia & Bianca from Evolve Ventures for FREE:https://calendly.com/emiliasmith/free-evp-communityconnect?month=2025-04Show notes:(2:31) Bianca's 26th birthday(6:15) The cost of saying "yes" to please(9:02) Holiday breakdown from heartbreak and wine(12:26) How low self-worth feeds people pleasing(15:48) The tipping point every pleaser faces(21:41) The truth that snapped her out of it(22:53) Rewriting the story on her 30th birthday(25:36) Why discomfort doesn’t mean you're wrong(27:18) Are they loving the real you?(29:07) Why manipulators target people pleasers(33:41) Outro***Leave them a 5-star review if you felt their energy, became inspired, or felt as though the value was added to your life in your EVOLUTION.(Stay tuned for this coming Thursday’s episode!)