398 Confessions of an Upset Mama: I wish I didn't have kids!

Have you ever had that fleeting thought...I wish I didn't have kids? OMGoodness! If you are honest, that is a thought that comes up in motherhood (or fatherhood).   And just because you are thinking this thought "I wish I didn't have kids", doesn't mean that you are a bad mama. Remember, you're only human. Being a mommy is a tough job. It can bring you to emotional states that isn't understood until you are graced with being a mom (or dad).  Now please know that if you are having these thoughts and they are NOT fleeting and circumstantial, plus the thoughts are leading you down a negative and harmful path, PLEASE SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP!! This is a serious situation. For our context today, we are looking at this from a fleeting thought. One that when your child has pushed your buttons too many times, you say to yourself...I wish I didn't have kids! Think about when you have these thoughts, how are you feeling? Frustrated Angered Upset A little mad Can't keep a level head Hard to focus Over emotional (good or bad... too much crying or too giddy) How does your body respond? Can you feel the tension build within your body. You lock your jaw; one reason so you don't say something you might regret.  Your sweet blessings just know how to get under your skin. Grrrr! Don't fret mama! Thinking this doesn't make you less of a good mommy, a bad wife, or not a good woman.  There is hope and a way to feel more in control. The K.I.S.S. ~ Remember you're only human!   Take a BREAK (timeout/getaway) Make YOU a PRIORITY (schedule daily ME time) Health & Wellness Checkin (physical/emotional/mental/spiritual) If you are wanting some assistance in this area or not sure what to do, please reach out. I am here for YOU! You matter!!!  Would love to hear what you are working on. Send your challenges and celebrations to [email protected]   The Create Your Now Archive is LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here.  http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1   PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE   https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users  https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677   THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Twitter@KristianneWargo@CreateYourNow Facebookwww.facebook.com/TheKISSCoachwww.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Contact me at [email protected] Read more from Kristianne, a contributor of The Huffington Post http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/   DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 2. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson