#4 - Challenging Conventional Wisdom with Been: The Intricacies of Identity, Non-Sexual Intimacy, and Compersion

As we navigate the paths of self-discovery and relationship dynamics, we're often faced with the pressures of societal norms and stereotypes. Join us on this enlightening journey with Been as we peel back the layers of identity and examine the intricacies of non-sexual intimacy. With her unique perspective as a cis, queer, polyamorous, and agosexual individual, Been shares invaluable insights and personal experiences that challenge the conventional wisdom surrounding relationships and intimacy. Breaking away from the traditional binary narrative, we delve into the importance of language and understanding in creating a more accepting society. Been also introduces us to the intriguing concept of compersion – the functional opposite of jealousy – and how it's essential for fostering healthier relationships. We also explore the delicate balance required in relationships to relinquish control and build trust, and the pivotal role that effective communication plays. In the second half of our engaging conversation, we tackle the topic of anger. How does understanding and verbalizing our anger contribute to healthier relationships? We also delve into how embracing vulnerability and understanding is vital for effective communication. Come along with us on this enlightening journey, as Been helps us understand the significance of embracing our unique identities and breaking free from societal norms. This episode will leave you questioning, learning, and hopefully with a greater acceptance of diversity and an enhanced understanding of relationships. References Made: More Than Two - By: Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert (Book) Speak Peace in a World of Conflict - By: Marshall B. Rosenberg (Book) Positive Intelligence - Shirzad Chamine Non-Violent Communication https://courses.mindbodymedicinetherapy.com/products/courses/view/1139693 Social Media: Instagram: @sir_purrseus @corinneassistant @hailey.sutherland_ Timestamps: (00:41 - 01:44) Expressing Opinions and Encouraging Understanding (05:42 - 06:14) Nuances and Diversity of Gender Identities (18:47 - 19:49) Understanding New Terms and Normalizing Experiences (22:56 - 24:44) Discovering and Embracing Agosexuality (25:27 - 27:53) Non-Sexual Intimacy in Relationships (30:57 - 32:27) Sexual Intimacy and Appreciating Individuality (41:24 - 41:51) Journey to Open and Healthy Relationships (44:03 - 45:13) Transition From Monogamy to Polyamory (50:19 - 51:01) Polyamory and Sexuality (54:17 - 55:43) Fluidity and Negotiation in Polyamorous Relationships Keywords: Identity, Taboos, Stereotypes, Non-Sexual Intimacy, Compersion, Gender Roles, Control, Relationships, Non-Monogamy, Self-Realization, Communication, Understanding, Anger, Verbalizing, Vulnerability, Acceptance, Diversity, Balance, Trust, Language, Openness