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EPISODE · Oct 29, 2025 · 39 MIN

4: Let’s Get Intimate… With Money & Ourselves

from Unicorns Do Exist · host Vanessa Ruiz

 What if your orientation did a plot twist mid-life? After 20 years of dating women, a long marriage, and the whole postpartum identity tornado — I start noticing men. Not every man. Not a straight-backflip romance. Just a new, confusing, delicious pull I didn’t expect.Follow @unicornsdoexistpod This episode is me, unfiltered: about sex after motherhood, the shame and freedom of changing desire, and how attraction and abundance both want you to show up differently. It’s taboo, tender, hilarious, and honestly — life-changing. Listen if you like messy truth, radical self-honesty, and the kind of conversations people whisper about at brunch. Miss this and you’ll still be guessing tomorrow. ✨ Listen if you’re ready to explore the gray, flirt with the unknown, and manifest the kind of freedom that feels like magic.🎧 Available now on Spotify & Apple Podcasts — don’t forget to follow so you don’t miss your next identity crisis in HD. 💜

After 20 years of being proudly lesbian, Vanessa finds herself unexpectedly attracted to men — and questioning everything she thought she knew about love, sex, and identity. A raw, funny, and unapologetic conversation about sexuality, motherhood, money, and the magic of evolving into your truest self.

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 What if your orientation did a plot twist mid-life? After 20 years of dating women, a long marriage, and the whole postpartum identity tornado — I start noticing men. Not every man. Not a straight-backflip romance. Just a new, confusing, delicious...

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