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EPISODE · Feb 11, 2026 · 20 MIN

#40: Why i'm embarrassed after my first big speaking workshop at a huge swinger convention

from Dear Diary, it's TorontoUnicorn · host TorontoUnicorn

In this diary entry, I reflect on my recent experience at the Big Swinger convention, where I had my first official speaking gig as Toronto Unicorn. While I thoroughly enjoyed the event and met amazing people, I faced several challenges, including forgetting to promote my YouTube channel and missing an invitation to set up a vendor table. Despite these setbacks, I learned valuable lessons about self-promotion, pre-event preparation, and embracing my natural body reactions. Overall, it was a weekend of fun, learning, and growth as I navigate my journey as a businesswoman. 00:00 Introduction and Recent Event Recap 00:48 First Official Speaking Gig Reflections 02:26 Missed Opportunities and Lessons Learned 06:52 Personal Vulnerabilities and Acceptance 10:34 Final Thoughts and Future Plans **description and chapters written with the help of AI** Content mentioned in this episode: 1. VIN - Valentine's in Niagara swinger convention vlog: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0JPvtdgqwaiOijoZEEmz8k?si=6e1b4b94f734434e ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Sign up for my email newsletters to stay up-to-date on TorontoUnicorn news, events and swinger lifestyle resources: ⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/torontounicornemails⁠⁠ ******* DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ BONUS content (behind the scenes, non-explicit) available now on my TorontoUnicorn Patreon page! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/c/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ My personal website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ --- Want to own something I wear, use, recommend? Or just see what hilarious and unique products I found worthy of sharing? 🤣 Check out my Amazon storefront! *affiliate links provide me with a small commission* 🇺🇸 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🇨🇦 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.ca/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ --- Please rate this podcast 5 stars and leave a comment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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