#41 - Is My Child Lazy? Why Students Avoid Work and What Actually Helps

Have you ever looked at your child, perfectly capable, intelligent and full of potential, and wondered why they delay starting their work?Many parents describe this behaviour as laziness. But more often than not, something else is driving that behaviour.In this episode, I unpack what is really going on when students procrastinate or struggle to begin their work. Drawing on neuroscience, psychology and learning science, we explore why simply telling a child to try harder rarely works and what actually helps.You will learn why starting a task is often the hardest step, how executive function and planning skills affect a student’s ability to organise their work and why factors such as cognitive overload and mental fatigue can create behaviours that look like low effort from the outside.🎙️ In this episode, you’ll learn:✅ Why the word “lazy” is rarely an accurate explanation for academic procrastination✅ How executive function and planning skills influence a child’s ability to start and organise work✅ Why motivation often follows action and not the other way around✅ What activation energy means in behavioural science and how reducing it helps students begin tasks✅ How cognitive load and overwhelm can cause students to avoid work altogether✅ Why avoidance can sometimes be a protective response rather than a lack of effortWhether your child struggles to start homework, delays revision or often feels overwhelmed by schoolwork, this episode will help you understand the science behind those behaviours and what parents can do to support stronger focus, motivation and study habits.🔗 Links & Resources📩 Enjoyed this episode? Share it with another parent who might benefit from it and don’t forget to subscribe for more conversations on academic success and student wellbeing.👉 Interested in personalised academic coaching? Book a free 30-minute consultation via my website:https://www.york-weaving-education.co.uk/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.