#41 Self-Assessment: If You Died Today, Would You Be Happy with the Example You Set?

If you're getting value from the podcast, please leave a rating or review — it helps other dads find this when they need it.If you died today, would you be happy with the example you set?That question started this whole podcast. One year later, Sam and Cole go back to it — and the honest answer is still no. Which is kind of the point.This week they walk through the questions that built the show: what your family would actually say about you if you were gone, what you've modeled as most important versus what you've just said out loud, and whether you've built a well-rounded example — not jacked with no emotional skills, not soft with no backbone.They get into sobriety as a non-negotiable for a lot of guys, over-indexing on fitness as a way to avoid the harder emotional work, and the gap between what you tell your kids to do and what you actually do yourself.Go write your own answers down before you talk yourself out of it.