411. Utter Honesty...can you do it?

It’s refreshing for someone to be honest and vulnerable because it lets you know they are comfortable with who they are which in a way gives you permission to be comfortable with who you are.  Not that you need permission but some of us me included may just need to be reminded that we are worthy and loved just as we are, flaws and all.   I bet most of us at some point or another growing up had someone judge us or withhold love from us if we weren’t exactly what they wanted us to be and if that happens too much you start hiding who you are. You start morphing your outer shell into something that’s acceptable to every single person you come in contact with for fear you’ll be rejected. And in the meantime you get so far detached from who you really are that you have no idea anymore so you look to others to help you decide.  That’s an awful lot of responsibility for someone else and a lot of uncertainty and confusion for you.