418. You Built a Beautiful Life But Is It Still Yours? with Kute Blackson

Have you ever looked around at the life you've built—the family, the job, the routines—and wondered, "Is this really what I want?" Not because anything is necessarily wrong but because something deep inside you is whispering that it's no longer right.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by the incredible Kute Blackson, a transformational teacher and bestselling author of The Magic of Surrender. We dive into what it really takes to get honest with yourself, let go of the identity you've outgrown, and step into the next version of your life even when it's terrifying.   If you've been feeling stuck, uncertain, or like you're outgrowing the life you worked so hard to build, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: 01:23 Why you might feel stuck, even when life looks "good" 03:06 How fear and ego keep you from moving forward 06:18 What happens when you keep suppressing your truth 15:51 The sneaky ways we self-sabotage (and why we do it) 19:00 Digging into the unconscious reasons you stay stuck 30:04 Kute's advice for women who feel like something's off 31:31 A personal story about attracting the wrong partners 38:58 Kute's surprising morning routine 39:41 How relationships are mirrors for growth 53:04 Who The Magic of Surrender was really written for   Find more from Kute Blackson Website: https://kuteblackson.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kuteblackson Boundless Bliss Event: https://www.boundlessblissbali.com/    Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com