#42 - Growth Mindset Momentum: The #1 Question I Get Asked about Raising Talented Kids

Over the course of my music teaching career and through the programs I run in my coaching practice, I've had the privilege of working with very talented kids and very intelligent parents and doing countless work on Growth Mindset myself. Growth Mindset is a lens I help ALL of my clients and music students develop, and I've learned some powerful lessons about how to cultivate it that I want to share with you today. If you've ever felt worried about how to build your child's self-esteem and help them enjoy their talents, you have to tune in. You might think you are building your child's self-esteem when you tell them how amazing they are, but in truth, I'm showing you why this is not helpful in building motivation for your child to become the best they can be. Listen in to discover why I believe the way we compliment our child matters; how as parents, we have the power to either help our children have strong internal motivation, or we're actually taking away from their internal drive to do their best, without meaning to. It comes down to knowing how to praise our child in such a way that builds TRUE self-esteem. What you'll learn on this episode: Why Growth Mindset is so powerful in raising confident kids. The Three powerful lessons I've learned about motivating children to develop their talents and what NOT to do. How to help your child when she is comparing herself to others who are 'more talented.' The best way to praise your child versus telling them, 'you're amazing!' (and why that actually hurts their self-esteem.) The emotions you need to build tolerance in with yourself so you can help your child tolerate their own tricky emotions. Mentioned on the show: When you're ready to apply what you're learning on the podcast to a more personalized approach, then come check out Dare Greatly Coaching with Danielle. Dr. Carol Dweck, Growth Mindset Follow Danielle on Instagram Grab the How to Compliment Your Child guide here.