42. The Third Way: Why Being Too Soft or Too Tough Breaks Connection (and What to Do Instead)

Have you ever noticed that no matter what you try, your child either pushes back or shuts down? One moment you’re trying to be gentle so you don’t damage the relationship… and the next you’re firm because nothing else seems to work. And somehow, both approaches leave you feeling disconnected, frustrated, and wondering why your child resists you even when you’re doing your best. In this episode, I’m sharing why being too soft and too tough actually create the same problem—and the overlooked third way that changes everything. You’ll learn why your child’s resistance isn’t defiance, but a natural response to disconnection, what “Counter Will” is and how it’s working against you, and how to lead with calm, confident authority that keeps your child’s heart open. If you’re longing to guide your child without fear, force, or guilt… this conversation will meet you right where you are. You don’t need to fix everything. You just need a better place to start. The Connected Mom Reset shows you how—for $22. Interested in getting help from me?  Book a 45 minute consult here.