42. When we need to work for love

Oscar Van Rooij is back! The Dutch mindset coach, public speaker and Tony Robbins associate is joining me on today's epsisode to explore the existential dilemma we all grapple with: Our innate human needs; on the one hand, to belong to others/ the group. And also, belonging to ourselves and being true to what we feel and sense. We ask questions like: What have you learnt to be / not be - in order to receive love, attention or praise?What triggers you most in your child? How can you support your child to not have to choose between authenticity and connection to you or others? This wonderful conversation is sparked by the important work by Dr Gabor Mate, Hungarian / Canadian physician and thought leader whose books include, but are not limited to: The myth of normal When the body says noHold on to your kidsScattered minds https://drgabormate.com/Oscar Van Rooij is a highly sought-after coach and motivational speaker and you can reach him: https://oscarvanrooij.com/Parenting is not easy. Our children press on all the stuff that need our attention. So if you wish to give yourself the love and attention that you deserve, or if you have any concerns about your child or family that you wish to heal, please reach out to me. Free discovery call bookings can be made here: [email protected] www.louise-brooks.com I'll look forward to supporting you on your parenting journey Louise xTo get weekly tips and parenting inspiration sent straight to your inbox - head over to www.louise-brooks.com to sign up for my weekly newsletter You can follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parentingsuccesscoaching/And onFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/