422: Want MORE from your love life? 3 ways to grow past Nice Guy Syndrome (ft. Jason Lange)

Ever feel like you're doing everything "right" — showing up, being kind, respecting her — but only getting crumbs?First dates that never turn into second dates. A marriage where you've quietly become roommates; no matter what you do, there's no sex, and there's not even very much affection. That feeling of putting in a ton of effort and still spinning your wheels.If any of that lands, you're likely living out some version of Nice Guy Syndrome.Outgrowing being a Nice Guy doesn't mean becoming a jerk. It does mean that you learn some skills or make some shifts you've maybe never even thought of before.Here, Jason and I break down the 3 specific things that support men in graduating from being a Nice Guy — the ones that take them from stuck to, "Wait, this actually works now?"—Come to the Retreat!Join us live in Boonville, CA (near Napa) in early September. As of this episode dropping, we've got 8 spots left. www.evolutionary.men/retreat—Work with usReady to go deeper? Our flagship program, Pillars of Presence, is where men transform. Book a call at www.evolutionary.men/apply.—Mentioned on this episode:No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover—Memorable quotes from this episode:"I'm trying really fucking hard and I'm not winning anywhere in it.""No woman can trust your yes if you do not have the capacity to say no.""You can't get better at community without being in community.""If shame is getting in the way of that, she doesn't have a chance to shine."