43| Choosing Marriage and How to Make it Work - Alex Allman

What this episode covers

In this episode Alex Allman gives advice on: - Alex Allman's recent marriage and his dating and relationship lifestyle over the last 15 years. - "I'm not a PUA, I'm terrible at cold approach." Learning to cold approach isn't necessary to meet lots of women. - Pre-conventional, conventional and post-conventional monogamy and polygamy. - Men cheating on their women is the societal norm. - The level of openness in your sexual communication and how it defines your relationship. - Post conventional morality, empathy and its connection with 100% love. - The swinger community as an example of conventional polyamory. - Different dating lifestyles for different stages of life. The 20s, 30s and 40s. - Steve Pavlina case study: From monogamous marriage, to polyamorous marriage to divorce and single life polyamory. - The decision to marry - how does it come about? - The more committed you are to a relationship the more pain you expose yourself to. - Choosing women with equal or greater "Self awareness" than you as partners. - Insights into the mindsets towards many women of men today from what is currently working in the marketing world. - The control mentality that the pickup artist community has given to some men. - The fundamental role of sex in marriage to work on and improve communication. - Pushing sexual boundaries. What it really means - not about "dressing up as furry animals". - How to stop sex getting boring: Excavating your personal identity through your sexual relationship with your partner. - A woman's love for you is sustained by your love. But only when it's pure. - Alex Allman's top 3 recommendations to men to work on to take their relationship lifestyle to success as fast as possible. GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources , Interview Transcript and Comments . HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show . FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

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