438. Why Coaches Should Not Just Give Advice

Have you ever felt the pressure to "have all the answers" as a coach? Or wondered what you're actually supposed to do in a coaching session to create real transformation? You're not alone—and the truth is, most new coaches misunderstand what coaching even is.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down the biggest myths around coaching, including why giving advice is not the core of what powerful coaches do. I share how real coaching helps clients build confidence, uncover their own solutions, and create sustainable results—without you jumping in to fix everything. I'm also giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what separates mentoring, counseling, and coaching so you can stay in your lane and show up with clarity and confidence.

If you've been feeling the pressure to "figure out what to say" or worrying you're not equipped to coach at a professional level, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Listen to Episode 435: How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/435-how-to-handle-breakdowns-in-a-coaching-session/id1577282350?i=1000739098630
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

What I Discuss:

• 01:40 The biggest myth about coaching—and why it creates dependency
• 03:05 How real coaching helps clients uncover their own answers
• 06:17 Why powerful coaches don't jump to solutions
• 07:42 The difference between giving advice and facilitating transformation
• 09:28 Getting to the root of a client's struggle
• 10:09 Coaching vs. counseling—what's the real difference?
• 12:05 Your role as a coach (hint: it's not to fix people)
• 13:15 How clarity leads to action → leads to results
• 14:26 Why proven frameworks make you a more effective coach

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com