44. The Truth About Gen Z, and How Tough Love Parenting Isn't Helping Christian Parents

If you were raised to “toughen up,” keep emotions in check, and push through no matter what—but now you’re parenting a child who seems emotionally overwhelmed, sensitive, shut down, or reactive—this episode is for you. Generation X parents are raising Generation Z kids using many of the same approaches they grew up with… yet the results feel painfully different. The conversations blow up. The connection feels fragile. And you’re left wondering why what worked before is suddenly making things worse—even though your intentions are good and your standards are strong. In this episode, I break down the generational mismatch happening in homes today and introduces Anchored Parenting—a powerful blend of compassion and leadership that today’s kids actually respond to. You’ll learn why behavior is not defiance but communication, how to read your child’s behavioral language, and what it looks like to lead with emotional steadiness instead of fear, pressure, or control. This isn’t about lowering expectations or being permissive—it’s about becoming the anchored parent your overwhelmed child needs so real connection, influence, and healing can begin. You can still become the mom your struggling child really needs. The Connected Mom Reset shows you how - for just $22. Interested in getting help from me?  Book a 45 minute consult here.