44 Why Jesus Told a Man Not to Bury His Father (Matthew 8:18-22)

Following Jesus means more than admiration. It means surrender.In this episode, we look at two short but striking conversations Jesus has with would-be disciples. One wants to follow him “wherever you go.” The other wants to delay following until it’s more convenient. In both cases, Jesus responds with words that are intentionally cryptic—and deeply revealing. These interactions pull us into the heart of discipleship and ask: What are we really hoping Jesus will do for us? What are we willing to leave behind to follow him?In this week’s episode, we explore:Why Jesus speaks cryptically—and how that invites deeper reflectionWhat “the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head” really meansThe cultural and theological context of “let the dead bury their own dead”How the authority of Jesus confronts our loyalty to family, comfort, and cultureThe temptation to follow Jesus for the wrong reasons—or to delay following him at allWhat true saving faith looks like and why it starts with knowing our deep needAfter listening, you’ll have a clearer view of what real discipleship requires—not perfection, but a willingness to follow Jesus above all else. You’ll be invited to consider whether your faith is shaped more by what you hope to gain in this world or by a genuine desire to be made holy and live in the kingdom of God.Start Strong: A New Believer’s Guide to Christianity is available now wherever books are sold.