445. Why 'Fixing' Yourself Will Never Make You Feel Enough with English Black

Let's protect your self-esteem from societal judgements. English Black is the Founder of The Curated Aesthetic, a boutique medspa known for refined results. English is also a physician assistant, allergen trainer, and speaker. Her work explores the psychology of beauty, self trust, and identity, challenging the industry to treat humans over just faces. English encourages women to embrace whatever is best for them from a place of self trust. Today, you'll hear her perspective on unrealistic beauty standards, why some women stay hidden, and practical tools for building self worth. In this episode, you will learn about: The difference between a controlled approach to beauty versus a confident one. What we sometimes need to see the version of ourselves that others see. Why we shouldn't pass judgement on other women who seek aesthetic changes. The importance of deep inner work in building your confidence and where it starts. How the main fears we have as humans impact the way we pursue aesthetic changes. Where actually feeling seen starts and how it adds to the magic of aesthetics. The variabilities we all face in aging and why transparency about it matters. How learning to let go makes you feel lighter and look younger. What it means to be a wild woman: Being your most authentic self.     Check out The Pink Skirt Project, happening July 9-10, 2026 in Kelowna, BC, Canada.   Want to get unstuck, feel more confident and surround yourself with women ready to help you climb? Join The Pink Skirt Society.   Got a minute? I would love a review! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap, and give me five stars. Then select "Write a Review." Make sure to highlight your favorite bits. Subscribe here. Connect with English: @theenglishaesthetic www.thecuratedaesthetic.com Connect with Renée: @renee_warren www.reneewarren.com