453: Listening & Learning: Why LDS Loved Ones Could Not Stay in the Church

Send us a Positive Review!Series Title: Torn: Why People We Love are Leaving the Church & What We Can Learn from Them [Part III of III]In this final episode of this beautiful series featuring guest author Jeff Strong & his bestselling book Torn: Why People We Love are Leaving the Church & What We Can Learn from Them, Val & Jeff cover four "culture imbalances" that thousands of disaffiliated LDS offered as reasons they could not grow in the context of the LDS church. Listen in to hear some sobering & important data that offers a more accurate narrative surrounding the current LDS dissafiliation crisis.As painful a this information might be for devout LDS loved ones, this information is vitally important. Can those who loved the church and want what is best for their faith- expanding families listen to their feedback and create safe harbor for those on unexpected faith journeys? The only way our LDS homes and wards can become this kind of community is to listen, learn, and trust the words and experiences of those who often only leave because they feel that thriving spiritually is not possible if they stay.Jeff's book Torn linked HERETimestamps:00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro02:45 Why These Talks Matter05:00 Unexpected Family Reversals13:14 Why Culture Is Key20:25 Imbalance One Who Belongs28:53 Balancing Standards With Love35:13 Transactional Faith Pitfalls44:54 Map Not The Sea50:57 Agency Versus Compliance54:28 Trusting Individual Conscience01:00:23 Pressure To Conform01:03:15 Ubuntu And Closing TakeawaysSupport the showStories of Healing: Live Event July 30th in SLCSupport the showListen, Share, Rate & Review EPISODESFriday Episodes Annual Access $89Friday Episodes Monthly Access $10Valerie’s Support & Processing GroupsGift a ScholarshipDownload Free ResourcesVisit our Website