46: What June 15th Actually Reveals (and What It Doesn't)

What if June 15th wasn't a verdict, but a flashlight?In this follow-up to last week's episode, Susan goes deeper on what June 15th actually reveals and how athletes and families can make sense of what they saw (or didn't see) once the day passed. Through two memorable analogies, a tunnel and a big box with multiple doors, she paints a clear picture of what's actually happening behind the scenes of the recruiting process and why most athletes are still in the middle of their journey, not at the end.Susan walks through why the days before June 15th feel like walking through a dark tunnel, sharing a personal story about taking her three young sons through an abandoned train tunnel in Truckee. She explains how June 15th is essentially the lights coming on in the middle of that tunnel, finally giving families clarity on how far they've come, what's ahead, and what direction to go next. She also calls out the social media trap that makes a small percentage of athletes feel like the majority, and offers a "Bill Nye, not Judge Judy" approach to assessing what the day actually revealed.If June 15th didn't unfold the way your family hoped, or you're trying to figure out what to do with the information you now have, this episode will help you reset, reassess, and move forward with clarity.Chapters00:00 – The power of being a little delusional03:00 – Validating the post-June 15th emotional roller coaster05:30 – June 15th is just information07:30 – Recruiting before June 15th: walking through the dark10:00 – The Truckee tunnel story13:30 – When the lights come on17:00 – Doors, mirages, and the rare easy paths19:00 – Why social media spotlights the few22:00 – Bill Nye vs. Judge Judy: assess, don't panic24:30 – Why recruiting doesn't end on June 15thClick HERE for the link to NXTVB Support Connect with Susan:Check out the website: www.nxtvb.comFollow on Instagram + TikTok: @hey.susankwww.rallysend.comLooking for a better way to stay organized and manage your recruiting? Check out www.rallysend.com—our go-to recruiting software for athletes, families, and clubs. It streamlines communication with college coaches, saves hours on recruiting outreach, and helps you stay ahead of the biggest challenge in the recruiting process: time.Use code HEYSUSAN to save $5/month on a monthly subscription or $50 off an annual plan.