46. What to Say When Your Child Says "You're Mean!"

Have you ever heard your child say, “You’re mean. I don’t like you!”—or call a friend or sibling mean—just because they didn’t get what they wanted?It stings, and it can leave you questioning yourself as a parent. I understand—I’ve been there too.Often, we end up in long lectures about how that kind of language “isn’t nice.” But that approach focuses only on what not to do, without showing kids how to express themselves in a better way.If you’ve noticed your child glaze over, tune out, or give a silly response instead, you’re not alone. These are common reactions because kids don’t yet know what they can do.In this week’s episode of the Sustainable Parenting Podcast with Flora McCormick, I’m breaking down this situation so you can understand what’s really going on and respond with calm parenting tips that actually work.BY THE TIME YOU’RE DONE LISTENING, YOU’LL KNOW:What not to say when your child calls you or someone else “mean.”A simple, clear recipe for parenting without yelling in these moments.A ready-to-use script that helps you rephrase your child’s words and guide them toward a more mature way of expressing their feelings—one that builds confidence and connection.✨Want more?  ✨JOIN me in the SUMMER of support:  💪❤️💪 https://courses.sustainableparenting.com/courses/summer-of-support✨ Get my 3 KEYS to Calm, Confident Parenting (30 min. FREE webinar) - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63640a05c74edb4b6bdce1f3✨ Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.✨Schedule a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting, so we can answer any questions you may have about working with Flora.✨Purchase a $19 short course on Etsy✨