460: May Her Memory Be a Blessing

In this episode of Turning Towards Life, we open into a conversation about living and dying, the memory of those who matter to us, presence, and love. Speaking from the freshness of recent losses, we explore how those we love can remain vividly alive in us, and how this can become a way of carrying them forward as a blessing. This week is hosted as always by Lizzie Winn and Justin Wise of Thirdspace. This is Turning Towards Life, a weekly live 30 minute conversation hosted by Thirdspace in which Justin Wise and Lizzie Winn dive deep into big questions of human living. Find us on FaceBook to join in the lively conversation on this episode. You can find videos of every episode, and more about the project on the Turning Towards Life website, and you can also watch and listen on Instagram, YouTube, and as a podcast in all the usual podcast places. Episode Overview 00:00 Welcome and the practice of being alive 02:24 Poem: “To Be” by Roberta Morrow 05:00 Grief, love, and Sylvia’s presence 10:40 “May her memory be for a blessing” 18:37 Practicing presence with those we love 22:39 Old photos and making the past present 28:51 Living as a blessing to others 31:45 Closing reflections and gratitude Our source for this week: To be. Wild in our arriving, We are born flesh of the forest. Held by the red of the earth, Carried by the bluest stream. Each day is the death of the last, Each morning a chance to be again. To be. To truly be. To press our hearts to the dirt, To hold our children fiercely. To laugh from the depths of our bellies until tears press at our seams. To look to the sky and know we will be guided by the wings of the wise hawk… To let our loved ones die. To hold them close as they die. Our love journeys with them, So they may be, again. Roberta Morrow Photo by Dasha Urvachova on Unsplash Join Our Weekly Mailing: www.turningtowards.life/subscribe Support Us: www.buymeacoffee.com/turningtowardslife --- Join Us Live in 2026 Foundations of Integral Development Coaching, led by Lizzie and Justin Sept 9-10 2026, Online, Book Here Our two-day immersive introduction to integral development coaching, led by Lizzie and Justin from Turning Towards Life. An opportunity to begin to learn to support others in deep, life giving discovery and development. You can read more 'Foundations' and book a place here: www.wearethirdspace.org/foundations-of-coaching You can hear us talk about the philosophy of our coaching programmes here: www.turningtowards.life/coaching And our year-long Professional Coaching Course details are here: www.wearethirdspace.org/professional-coaching-course Turning Towards Life Live Season 3, from September 2026 Our Turning Towards Life live programme of community, learning and reflection runs in six month seasons, in person on Zoom once a month. We're very excited about it. A chance to expand beyond the bounds of a podcast into forming a community of learning and practice. You can find out more and join us here: www.turningtowards.life/live ----