47. How to Be More Attractive｜Dr. Drew

Dr. Drew (David Drew Pinsky) is a doctor of internal medicine and addiction specialist who became globally recognized through his appearances on Loveline, Celebrity Rehab, Ellen, Oprah, Jimmy Kimmel Live, and much more.  I was fascinated to hear Dr. Drew's expansive knowledge about history and philosophy, and how he applies it to lead a more fulfilling life. We also dug into human attraction and why we're attracted to certain types of people, attachment theory, how he makes time for self-care and growth, why social contracts like marriage are important, and much more. This has been one of my favorite episodes to date, and I hope you enjoy our conversation as much as I did. Timestamps: [01:30] How Dr. Drew started his career in medicine and rose to fame [13:00] Can introverts become extroverts (and vice versa?) [20:30] Finding time to learn, and take care of yourself with a busy schedule [23:00] Stoic philosophy (plus story on how. he got Ryan Holiday started on stoicism) [26:25] Dr. Drew's current philosophy and how he applies it to his life [28:45] What Dr. Drew thinks about the cancel culture today [34:50] Should students still go to college in the future? [41:00] Can you still be friends with your ex? [43:30] Are humans closer to bonobos or chimpanzees (aka are we polygamous animals?) [49:00] Attachment theory [55:00] What do women find attractive in a man, and what attractive qualities do men look for in women? Links: Dr. Drew's website: https://drdrew.com Dr. Drew's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEM8p2TCieVJCbw2-03xpRw The Partially Examined Life podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/the-partially-examined-life/id318345767 Frederick Douglas biography: https://amzn.to/3h9Y98i Facing Love Addiction book:  https://amzn.to/2E41uHE If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes and a rating on our Spotify show? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! Subscribe on YouTube: http://bit.ly/38bZNAY Listen on Apple Podcast: https://buff.ly/2PycRL1 Listen on Spotify: https://bit.ly/growth-minds Follow me on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/heyseankim Learn Spanish by speaking it for free: https://www.jumpspeak.com Past guests on Growth Minds include: Robert Kiyosaki (Rich Dad Poor Dad), Steve Aoki, Robert Greene, Dr. Jason Fung, Dr. Steven Gundry, Neil deGrasse Tyson (StarTalk),  Dennis Rodman, Wim Hof, Robin Sharma, Vanessa Van Edwards, King Bach, Daniel Pink, Dr. William Davis, Doctor Mike, Lewis Howes (School of Greatness), Tom Bilyeu (Impact Theory), Andrew Yang, Dr. Paul Conti, Charles Hoskinson (Ethereum), Dr. Drew (After Dark), Jo Koy, Jordan Belfort (Wolf of Wall Street), Gad Saad, Adam Carolla, Louis the Child, Vishen Lakhiani (Mindvalley), Bret Weinstein (DarkHorse Podcast), James Nestor, Dave Rubin, Scott Adams (Real Coffee with Scott Adams), Dave Asprey (Bulletproof Coffee), Gabby Reece, Rich Roll, James Altucher, R3hab, and more.