48. The Dance of Control: Understanding Over and Under-Functioning

from Undressing Intimacy · host Amy and Greg Langford

This week, we're back with an insightful discussion on over-functioning and under-functioning in relationships, a topic we frequently encounter in our coaching work. We delve into how anxiety can drive us to over-do or avoid responsibilities in different aspects of life, such as health, finances, intimacy, and more. Sharing personal experiences from our marriage, we explore how these patterns not only affect relationships but also our own well-being. We discuss the importance of recognizing these behaviors and offer tips on how to manage and balance them. Join us as we provide valuable insights and tools to help you and your partner achieve a more harmonious relationship!

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