#480 Amy Morin - The Mental Strength Playbook

I’m a voracious reader and it’s a special treat to feature as a guest a popular mainstream author whose books I love.Amy Morin is a therapist and the author of several books including The Mental Strength Playbook and 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do.Amy joins me to share her expertise about:What are the most important things mentally strong people don’t do from her listWhy “not giving away your power” is the most important on the listHow social media therapy speak gets weaponized and causes more harm than goodAre people more fearful of interaction with camera phones everywhereAmy’s thoughts on “everyone diagnosing themselves with a mental health issue on the internet”Why Amy believes “trust your gut” is the most damaging advice in pop psychologyAnd much moreInstagram: @amymorinauthorCHAPTERS01:02 Stop Giving Away Power02:49 Rewrite Your Story05:41 No Self-Pity Spiral07:56 Learned Helplessness Trap09:08 Therapy Speak Online11:33 Pathologizing Dating13:04 Mentally Strong Couples15:41 Playbook Mood Tools18:11 Emotional Spillover20:10 Calculated Risk Taking21:53 Cameras and Social Fear25:36 Viral Upside Stories26:40 Social Media Unknowns28:11 Take More Shots28:51 Fear and Criticism30:37 Build a Victory Vault32:31 Resentment and Envy33:35 Identity and Habits35:37 Owning Mistakes37:33 Online Pile-Ons43:39 The Self-Diagnosis Trap46:40 Personal Responsibility51:04 The “Trust Your Gut” Myth54:46 Media Savvy Wrap Up56:17 Final RecommendationsSUPPORT THE SHOWIf this episode helped you think differently about mental strength, anxiety, or navigating the modern world, you can support the show by:Subscribing and checking out more episodesSharing it on social media (tag me and I’ll respond)Sending it to someone who could use a reminder that resilience is a skillFOLLOW ANDREW COATESInstagram: @andrewcoatesfitnesshttps://www.andrewcoatesfitness.comPARTNERS AND RESOURCESRP Strength App (use code COATESRP)https://www.rpstrength.com/coatesJust Bite Me Meals (use code ANDREWCOATESFITNESS for 10% off)https://justbitememeals.comMacrosFirst – FREE Premium TrialDownload MacrosFirst and during setup select ANDREWKNKG Bags (15% off)https://www.knkg.com/Andrew59676Versa Grippshttps://www.versagripps.com/andrewcoatesTRAINHEROIC – FREE 90-Day Trialhttps://www.trainheroic.com/liftfreeReply to the email you receive (or email [email protected]) and let them know Andrew sent youL1 BIOMECHANICS AND ASSESSMENT COURSEhttps://pro.activelifeprofessional.com/assessmentworkshopeventsUse code COATES at checkout