49: Date Smarter Rather than Harder

Do you hate being single and want to get results. Singles tell me every day just how frustrated they are. Being a Dating/Relationship Coach I always ask them what they are doing about meeting someone! They often answer ‘Not much’ and add ‘it doesn’t work so why bother!’ Or for others, they are exhausted from spending a lot of time on apps swiping obsessively. Yet when I look at what they are doing they don’t send messages or arrange any dates. The reality is that this is the reason why way too many singles are not getting results on dating apps. They are doing dating apps by not doing them! Spoiler alert, if you don’t do anything you are going to stay single. Dating, just like anything else in life it takes some type of effort on your part. Laziness doesn’t get results nor does avoiding it! Can you relate to this: Do you Hate Being Single But...... Say no to everyone You don't bother to reply on apps for days or weeks Send minimal responses Unmatch for the dumbest things Cancel dates cos you don't feel like the effort If you answered yes, this could be the reason you are not getting results on dating apps! Okay maybe you are a hopeless romantic and you are hanging out for that rare love story where you meet serendipitously (found by some miraculous chance) as it is your destiny. But, I see way too many singles who have waited for a decade and nothing has happened. The reality is that you can’t count on that chance meeting. What you can count on is putting some real effort into getting results on dating apps It is all about being smarter in how you use dating apps rather than working harder! In this week's podcast, I am going to tell you how!