#49: I mailed used panties to a fan... and now it's missing (Video on Spotify)

I share an embarrassing but real content-creator dilemma: I sometimes sell used items (socks, underwear, stockings, loofahs, clothes) privately to special fans, and I mailed a long-time fan in the U.S. a sealed care package that included used underwear. Because it crossed the border, customs and tracking make everything feel extra personal, and now the package appears lost—last scanned April 30 in Chicago and still not delivered by May 13. Filing a claim would require giving my and the recipient’s full contact details, which feels too invasive given what’s inside, so I’m choosing to walk away from the roughly $30 and hope the package disappears. I feel bad because the fan spoils me and deserves it, so I’ll likely resend it, but this experience makes me want to pause cross-border “used item” shipping. 00:00 Embarrassing Diary Intro 00:29 What I Sell Privately 01:34 Why Fans Want Worn Items 02:21 Cross Border Customs Stress 03:28 Package Lost In Transit 04:39 Claim Versus Privacy Dilemma 06:34 Resending And New Boundaries 07:31 OnlyFans Trend And Scent Talk 08:39 Grateful For A Generous Fan 11:08 Two Day Wear Rule 11:36 Wrap Up And Where To Find Me *description written with the help of AI* Content mentioned in this episode: 1. Diary episode about a special fan who spoils me (Diary episode 35): https://open.spotify.com/episode/54oayMxzopDqBrN0W3GoQ2?si=8275d3add5a04233 ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Sign up for my email newsletters to stay up-to-date on TorontoUnicorn news, events and swinger lifestyle resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/torontounicornemails⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place: 👉⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/dpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ready to go deeper? Check out my full courses at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ BONUS content (behind the scenes, non-explicit) available now on my TorontoUnicorn Patreon page! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/c/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ My personal website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ --- Want to own something I wear, use, recommend? Or just see what hilarious and unique products I found worthy of sharing? 🤣 Check out my Amazon storefront! *affiliate links provide me with a small commission* 🇺🇸 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🇨🇦 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.ca/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ --- Please rate this podcast 5 stars and leave a comment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices