#5 How to Stop Self-Betraying and Start Choosing You

After betrayal, kindness toward ourselves can feel impossible. We question everything — including our own worth and intuition. In this episode, Hali Roderick, Certified Partner Coach (APSATS) and trauma-informed guide, explores what it means to rebuild safety within through self-compassion. You’ll learn how to move from self-criticism to self-kindness, from isolation to connection, and from self-betrayal to fierce self-loyalty.Together, we’ll explore Kristin Neff’s three elements of self-compassion — Self-Kindness, Common Humanity, and Mindfulness — and how they apply to healing betrayal trauma. Hali also introduces the concept of Fierce Self-Compassion, the form of love that protects, sets boundaries, and reclaims your power.You’ll walk away with practical ways to show yourself both tenderness and strength as you continue rising into wholeness.In This Episode, You’ll Discover:The difference between self-pity and self-compassionWhy betrayal often wounds self-worth — and how to rebuild itHow the fight/flight/freeze response can turn inward after traumaWays to meet your inner critic with compassion, not shameHow to access both tender and fierce self-compassionOne simple act of kindness you can offer yourself this weekStay Connected: Download my free Mini Guide to Mindful Healing After BetrayalDownload my free ebook: Your First Steps to Rising From BetrayalWebsite: ⁠rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.comConnect on Instagram: @rootedandrising.healing Follow on Facebook: Rooted and Rising Healing with Hali RoderickContact: [email protected]