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EPISODE · Mar 6, 2025 · 9 MIN

5 Keys to Eliminating One of the Worst Questions in Your Communication Tool Box

from Leading Your Best Life with Leigh Farnell · host Leigh Farnell

In this Communication for Success - Part One, I discuss one of the dumbest questions you can ask as a Coach, Leader, Manager, Teacher or Parent.   5 Reasons Why Asking 'Do You Understand?' Can Be a Really, Really Dumb Question #1 - It Puts People on the Spot – It can make the other person feel uncomfortable or defensive, especially if they don't understand but don't want to admit it. #2 - It's Too Binary – The question only allows for a yes or no answer, without giving insight into what they actually understand or don't. #3 - It Assumes Clarity Is the Listener's Responsibility – It subtly shifts the blame onto the listener rather than the speaker for any lack of clarity. #4 - It Doesn't Check for Real Understanding – Someone can say "yes" just to move the conversation along, even if they haven't fully grasped the point. #5 - It Misses the Chance to Engage – A better approach is to ask, "What are your thoughts on that?" or "How would you explain that back to me?" which encourages dialogue and checks understanding without judgment.   Click here for the full article -   Want me to Coach You Lead Your Best Business - Lead Your Best Life?   Book an Obligation Free Lead Your Best Life Strategy Session Schedule a free Lead Your Best Business - Lead Your Best Life Coaching call here now: 15-Minute Strategy Meeting   Limited spaces available. Want access to powerful online Coaching Resources?   B2B Package - for B2B Sales Results Transformation   https://book.colourzonesellingsystem.com/b2b_sales   Retail Package - for Retail Sales Results Transformation   https://book.colourzonesellingsystem.com/retail_offer1

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