5. Overcome Victim-Victimizer With This One Thing

Send us Fan MailThink of a time you felt like a victim. Contemplate that for a moment. We've all been there. Probably more often than we like. But there is a way out of it.Shary Davis was my therapist from 2002 to 2008. Shary has an awesome theory of psychology and it's depicted in this blog post.When in turmoil we spend time in either victim or victimizer.Victim mentality is everywhere nowadays. It is entitled. It is like Elizabeth Gilbert describes in her book Big Magic - the martyr.Here are links to the blog post and video mentioned in the episode.My House Was Stolen From Me.Blog post on Victim-Victimizer for this episodeThe Book Big Magic by Elizabeth GilbertSupport the showThe Kathie Owen PerspectiveHelping leaders, founders, and professionals recognize the human patterns that shape leadership, culture, communication, and emotional regulation under pressure.🌐 Website: https://www.kathieowen.com📖 Articles & Bonus Resources: https://www.kathieowen.com/blog🎤 Human Patterns Under Pressure Live Join an upcoming live event to explore leadership psychology, nervous system regulation, and the hidden patterns that influence performance, relationships, and workplace culture.📱 Connect with Kathie: • LinkedIn • YouTube • Facebook • Instagram • PinterestIf this episode helped you see something differently, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who could benefit from the conversation.Pressure doesn't define us. It reveals the patterns we've yet to observe.