50: Want Matches: Finding Harmony in Relationships

Send us Fan MailIn this podcast episode, MaryAnn explores the concept of "want matches" in relationships. A want match occurs when both individuals in a relationship share the same desires and preferences. These want matches can involve values, such as prioritizing safety or family time, or they can revolve around specific activities or interests, like going to the gym or traveling. It is crucial to recognize and accept the wants of both parties without expecting or pressuring the other person to change. Resentment arises when wants are not acknowledged or honored. Choose, instead, to act rather than react emotionally when there isn't a want match. By seeking out individuals who are want matches for specific activities or interests, both parties can experience fulfillment and avoid unnecessary conflict. This simple concept can make a significant difference in all types of relationships, whether romantic or friendships, by fostering understanding, curiosity, and acceptance.Want to learn more? Listen to my episode on Manuals here.Click here to listen to my episode on Holiday Manuals. Want to connect in other ways?  Click here to find me on my other platforms! Click here to leave me a review to be shared on my website and here, on the podcast.