52. Parenting with more Self Compassion, with Dr Jen Ferris

Parenting can feel incredibly heavy sometimes - especially when we’re carrying guilt, self-doubt, and the pressure to “get it right.” In this episode, Nina is joined by Dr. Jen Ferris to talk about what self-compassion really looks like in everyday parenting and why learning to be a little kinder to ourselves can have such a powerful impact on family life.Dr. Jen shares her own parenting experiences, the challenges that led her to explore self-compassion more deeply, and practical ways parents can begin supporting themselves through the hard moments.You’ll LearnWhat self-compassion actually means in parenting Why so many parents struggle with guilt and self-criticism How self-compassion can help reduce reactivity and overwhelm Why being kinder to yourself benefits your children too Small ways to start practicing self-compassion every dayWhy This Episode MattersSo many parents feel like they should be coping better than they are. This conversation is an important reminder that parenting is hard, that you’re not alone, and that supporting yourself matters too. Self-compassion for parents isn’t about lowering your standards - it’s about creating enough space to keep showing up with care and connection, even on difficult days.Small Shift for Big ImpactJen’s small shift for this week is to practise putting your hand on your heart, taking a couple of deep breaths, and asking yourself, “What do I need right now?”Try it first in a calm moment, when things aren’t stressful. This helps it become more familiar, so it’s easier to access when parenting feels overwhelming. Then, when a hard moment does come, you have a gentle way to reconnect with yourself and respond with a little more care. Take the Next StepIf this episode resonated with you, I’d love to invite you to connect with me over on Instagram or join my mailing list for more mindful parenting support and practical tools. Links and ResourcesGrab Dr. Jen Ferris’ book: Parenting with Self-Compassion (please note this is an affiliate link)Visit Dr Jen’s website Check out Dr Jen’s Instagram or Facebook PageRelated Podcast EpisodesEpisode 19. Are You Drowning in the Parenting Juggle? Episode 20. What If You Could Let Go of Mum Guilt? with Dr Camille Guillerey Episode 23. What is self compassion, really? Episode 27. Are you feeling the invisible weights of motherhood?Let’s ConnectWant more support? Follow Nina on Instagram, or sign up for tips and updates at mindfulparentinglifestyle.com.au.Have a question or parenting challenge you'd like addressed on the podcast? Send a DM or an email.Follow Nina on InstagramWebsite: mindfulparentinglifestyle.com.auEmail: [email protected] the HostsNina is a mindful parenting coach, educator, and mum passionate about helping overwhelmed parents move from reactive parenting to calmer, more connected family relationships. Through practical strategies, mindfulness, and compassionate support, she helps parents break generational patterns and create the kind of home life they truly want for their families.On Your Calm Parenting Path, Nina shares relatable stories, expert conversations, and simple tools that help parents feel more confident and less alone in the everyday challenges of raising children. Her approach is warm, realistic, and grounded in the belief that small shifts can create a big impact. Dr. Jen Ferris is a writer, former child development professor, and mum of two teenagers. Through her work, she explores the very real pressures parents face and the emotional load that can come with trying to “get parenting right” all the time.After experiencing her own struggles with overwhelm, guilt, and self-doubt in motherhood, Jen became passionate about helping parents approach themselves with more compassion and understanding. Her book, Parenting with Self-Compassion, offers practical, gentle support for parents who want to care for their children without losing themselves in the process.