#53: Tradition vs. Trend: Navigating Family Expectations & Modern Weddings with Tabitha Roberts

In this episode of Now That I’m Engaged, How Do I Get Married?, Kevin Dennis and August Yocher sit down with seasoned wedding planner Tabitha Roberts of Roberts & Co. Events for an honest and insightful conversation about tradition versus trend and how couples can navigate the emotional landmines that come with both.With over 16 years in the wedding industry, Tabitha has seen it all — from the rise of Pinterest to the shift away from rigid etiquette rules — and she shares what’s changed, what still matters, and where couples often feel the most pressure. From social media comparisons to parental expectations (especially when parents are footing the bill), this episode dives into how to balance honoring tradition while still planning a wedding that feels authentic and true to you.They talk about how weddings involve multiple stakeholders with layered expectations, why communication and boundaries with family are essential, and how certain traditions — like cake cutting, parent dances, and formal invitations — can be adapted rather than eliminated. Tabitha also shares how outdated etiquette continues to cause confusion, and why hospitality, guest experience, and thoughtful planning will never go out of style.If you’re feeling torn between what you see online, what your family expects, and what you actually want, this episode offers clarity, reassurance, and practical advice for planning your wedding your way — without unnecessary stress or guilt.With over 16 years of event planning experience, Tabitha has grown Roberts & Co into a company that thrives in creating and experiencing hospitality in its highest form. Working to always be transparent and upfront with her clients, their company is built on making planning less work and more enjoyable for everyone!Highlights• How to balance tradition and modern wedding trends• Navigating parental expectations — especially when they’re contributing financially• Why social media can create unrealistic wedding comparisons• Which etiquette rules still matter (and which are evolving)• How to communicate boundaries without damaging relationships• Why embracing trends that reflect your personality is perfectly okayConnect with Tabitha:WebsiteInstagramFacebookTikTokLinkedInConnect with Kevin & August: WebsiteInstagramYouTubeTikTokPinterestLinkedIn