534 | What We Tell Married Couples (NLL)

Use the timestamps below to guide you better as a leader or individual:Introduction to today’s show. 0:00Top three things that Chris tells married couples.Top advice and counsel for couples.Couples tend to wrestle with similar problems. 0:57Couples tend to wrestle with similar problems in situations.The three top common things discussed today.How much do you know about your spouse? 2:48You have to keep learning about your spouse.Plan on learning for the rest of your marriage.Communication is a big struggle. 4:42Communication is a big struggle in a relationship.Ask questions instead of assuming.The fear of sounding stupid in front of his wife.Writing down his wife's desires.Get to know your spouse better. 8:47Spend time learning and getting to know your spouse.Kill as much selfishness as possible.Kill it all at all costs. 10:37Kill it at all costs, chris.Get out of the victim mentality.The more victim mentality, the more you will find yourself. 12:14The more victim mentality, the more selfishness and self-centeredness.Focus on others, not you.Taking time with his wife and family.Taking time to relax and enjoy each other.The importance of self care. 16:01Self-care is good, but it's not the only thing.The third thing.What Is love? Scripturally? 17:40The couple who learn to put god first.Love scripturally is selfless sacrifice.How to gain sacrificial love toward god. 19:11Learn how to serve each other incredibly well.Focus on relationship with god.Couples can't afford to ignore these important instructions.Learn each other's personality styles first.