54: From Scarcity to Standards - My Personal Shift in Dating and Self-Trust With Katherine Kimball

What happens when you stop chasing love and start choosing yourself?In this powerful kickoff to the Radical Relationship Recovery: Rebuilding from the Inside Out series, I sit down with Katherine Kimball—my former counselor and the woman who held space for one of the most transformative seasons of my life.For three months, I brought her my grief, loneliness, codependency, and truth. What I got in return was something no one had ever given me: space to feel it all and still stay standing.In this raw conversation, we talk about:The scarcity mindset that used to drive my dating decisionsWhat changed in me during our time together—and what that says about real growthThe difference between authentic generosity and manipulative nicenessHow trauma survivors can finally stop overfunctioning in relationshipsThe signs you’re moving from self-abandonment to radical self-trustIf you've ever felt like you're too much, too emotional, too intense—or you've been told that your standards are too high—this episode is for you.This is what real healing looks like: messy, bold, and full of truth.And it's only just beginning.Book a free Relationship Clarity Call with Darla: https://calendly.com/highvaluewoman7/relationship-clarity-sessionTo find Katherine Kimball:Website: https://katavitacoaching.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/katavitacoachingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherinevkimball/Connect with Darla Ridilla:  🎙️ Launch Your Podcast Without Losing Your Mind A beginner course for people ready to share their voice https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoiceFree Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtkWebsite: https://www.highvaluewoman.infoSign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connectFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7wLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/Send me an email: [email protected]